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I struggle with control issues (over myself, not others). I am diagnosed high anxiety and this is seen in how much I have to control the moment I’m in; I endlessly panic and over-analyze. As such, I can’t let go and hand over control. It’s only gotten worse over the years and it’s really destroyed my ability to regress.
As I’ve mentioned elsewhere, hopefully being a bachelor again and setting aside many of the stresses that feed into that anxiety will help lower that baseline. I really hope so, because the three meds I’m on haven’t done the trick.
While I can’t relinquish control in my mind, my heart has never yearned so much to be “broken”, like an unwieldy bronco brought to heel. I don’t mean I actually want ponyplay. As an aside, though, ABDL, BDSM, pony and puppyplay... they’re all couched in the same realm of control and submission; it’s often just a different system of reward and, of course, outfits.
The manner I want to be broken is through being put into my locking footie pajamas, and not being let out until I’ve lost control of my bladder and bowels. I’ve never experienced that. I don’t wish to become incontinant; I simply want to hit that point where no matter how much I fight it, I am unable to maintain control.
Not only that, but in having an accepting and understanding caregiver, I know she’ll accept and love me afterwards. There has to be this other element to the ‘letting go’: I’ll hit rock bottom, but momma will help me rise back up, as a mother soothes her child after they have an accident whilst potty training.
I hope this makes sense and isn’t too revolting. It’s not a sexual ends for me and it’s as close to that genuine BDSM mindset that I drift to. I just need to have the reins taken from me; I hate holding them, but my brain can’t let go. I need to be broken and then, afterwards, told lovingly that it’s okay to relinquish control and that I’m still a good kid.
As I’ve mentioned elsewhere, hopefully being a bachelor again and setting aside many of the stresses that feed into that anxiety will help lower that baseline. I really hope so, because the three meds I’m on haven’t done the trick.
While I can’t relinquish control in my mind, my heart has never yearned so much to be “broken”, like an unwieldy bronco brought to heel. I don’t mean I actually want ponyplay. As an aside, though, ABDL, BDSM, pony and puppyplay... they’re all couched in the same realm of control and submission; it’s often just a different system of reward and, of course, outfits.
The manner I want to be broken is through being put into my locking footie pajamas, and not being let out until I’ve lost control of my bladder and bowels. I’ve never experienced that. I don’t wish to become incontinant; I simply want to hit that point where no matter how much I fight it, I am unable to maintain control.
Not only that, but in having an accepting and understanding caregiver, I know she’ll accept and love me afterwards. There has to be this other element to the ‘letting go’: I’ll hit rock bottom, but momma will help me rise back up, as a mother soothes her child after they have an accident whilst potty training.
I hope this makes sense and isn’t too revolting. It’s not a sexual ends for me and it’s as close to that genuine BDSM mindset that I drift to. I just need to have the reins taken from me; I hate holding them, but my brain can’t let go. I need to be broken and then, afterwards, told lovingly that it’s okay to relinquish control and that I’m still a good kid.