AcePrincess said:
Hello, I'm new to this. I have been interested in finding a father figure all of my life but I just discovered this community. Is there a portion of this community that is asexual? I am non sexual and am hoping to find a long term or permanent father. I'm not into diapers by the way.
What do you have to say to someone who's new to this community and thinks they might be a little?
Welcome to the site, AcePrincess!
Yes -- there seems to be an above average portion of the community who are asexual. But, of course, it's hard to tell. Maybe people are more honest about their sexuality on a forum like this...? People often ask whether there are more people here with Asperger's as sometimes it seems quite common amongst posters. And (personally), I've noticed that anxiety and depression seem a little higher than one might expect... but who knows...?
Anyway, I'm not sure I can offer any advice for anyone new to this other than... think about what you like and what makes you happy... and explore it. It's not like you have to decide whether you
are a "little" or a "little bit little" or curious or... anything at all. Just... whatever makes you happy! I guess, for many, it's just a "mindset" or background feeling, where you give yourself permission to want and feel however you like. You don't have to be a boring grown up any more... just tear up the rule book and have fun!
This is a support site, rather than a hook-up site, but if you do ever find someone online who you think could be your daddy... just be very careful and make sure that you're safe. Get to know them first, meet up in a public place, let people know where you're going and have someone expecting a phone call to confirm that you're safe. I'm sure you know all this, but there are some seriously dodgy people out there.
But I think you should stick around, and join in the conversation, and just... love your little side and make it happy! :-D