I Made new Little Friends. But now i find myself with a new Question.

[LittleKittenEmily]

So tonight I went to my first munch and had a blast, met other littles for the first time. Two of which I get along with and became friends with, I'm pretty Happy and excited for my first Little friendship. But today I also noticed my Little side tends to look up to other littles or at least the two I've met and am starting to question if my Little side is maybe a Sister Type and is craving some guidance from older littles as the youngest. Is this normal?

 

[Anemone]

It follows from a logical standpoint, I'd not be worried. I will caveat that with the caution that it may impede others' sense of littleness if they are made to feel elder. A little self awareness might be needed, or not as it is surely a matter of personal preference and that is not for me to presume.

 

[Cottontail]

Hey, @LittleKittenEmily! I saw your other topic about the munch. I'm glad to hear that it was fun! I've really enjoyed all the meetups I've gone to. When I talk with people in places like this, I'm always telling myself, "There's a human being at the other end of this," but I guess I never quite believe it until I'm sitting across the table from them. And then suddenly it's real. Belief is good.

To your question: I don't know what "normal" means in this quirky little world of ours. It certainly doesn't seem any weirder. Thinking back to the various munches I attended, there were definitely those who exuded more of a sibling vibe, some who seemed more parental, ... But then most of those people weren't in anything like their ABDL headspaces. Playing together or otherwise interacting in a more intimate setting could be something completely different. Regardless, I hope you get to explore it further.

 

[LittleKittenEmily]

Hey, @LittleKittenEmily! I saw your other topic about the munch. I'm glad to hear that it was fun! I've really enjoyed all the meetups I've gone to. When I talk with people in places like this, I'm always telling myself, "There's a human being at the other end of this," but I guess I never quite believe it until I'm sitting across the table from them. And then suddenly it's real. Belief is good.

To your question: I don't know what "normal" means in this quirky little world of ours. It certainly doesn't seem any weirder. Thinking back to the various munches I attended, there were definitely those who exuded more of a sibling vibe, some who seemed more parental, ... But then most of those people weren't in anything like their ABDL headspaces. Playing together or otherwise interacting in a more intimate setting could be something completely different. Regardless, I hope you get to explore it further.

I find before this munch meeting all week I was wondering if a Daddy is what I needed, then attended munch and felt like I wanted more of a Sibling Vibe and other Littles to help guide my Little side. It was also my first time meeting other littles so was abit Blown away because I've been into this my entire life but never met other littles before that. Luckily I did talk to one of them about setting up a playdate and that is also something I've never done before so am excited to get that set up. But also am just so New to all this that I'm pretty nervous about making new Little friends.

 

[Joediaper]

SO awesome you braved it and met people you get along with in the process. I have explored this part of myself virtually but not in real life. The thoughts and feelings I have would not change in a real life situation.

Those thoughts and feeling align with what you have said.

I am more of an independent little and don't feel a strong desire for a parental figure. I am more apt to just hang out with others and have fun. It's nice to know there are others out there that have these feelings. I would say you are perfectly normal in this odd world full of creeps and weirdoes. I mean do we really know factually what normal is? Just go with your feelings, explore yourself and you'll find great people along the way that accept you for who you are.

P.S. Can you find the song reference?

 

[katierichards7777]

So tonight I went to my first munch and had a blast, met other littles for the first time. Two of which I get along with and became friends with, I'm pretty Happy and excited for my first Little friendship. But today I also noticed my Little side tends to look up to other littles or at least the two I've met and am starting to question if my Little side is maybe a Sister Type and is craving some guidance from older littles as the youngest. Is this normal?

Glad to hear you had fun and made friends! I want to make IRL little friends as well and I'm glad to hear it went well. I think what you are experiencing seems natural to me and an extension of being a little!

 

[LittleKittenEmily]

Glad to hear you had fun and made friends! I want to make IRL little friends as well and I'm glad to hear it went well. I think what you are experiencing seems natural to me and an extension of being a little!

I'm going to be going to the next Munch they host locally as well I think, I'm still trying to be more outgoing so hopefully in time this feeling will change so I can play with the big girls better.

SO awesome you braved it and met people you get along with in the process. I have explored this part of myself virtually but not in real life. The thoughts and feelings I have would not change in a real life situation.

Those thoughts and feeling align with what you have said.

I am more of an independent little and don't feel a strong desire for a parental figure. I am more apt to just hang out with others and have fun. It's nice to know there are others out there that have these feelings. I would say you are perfectly normal in this odd world full of creeps and weirdoes. I mean do we really know factually what normal is? Just go with your feelings, explore yourself and you'll find great people along the way that accept you for who you are.

P.S. Can you find the song reference?

I find that I need more then just a parental figure, I've always been the eldest and use to chill with some rough crowds so had to do the babysitting for some rowdy people. I find I need Siblings or at least other littles like me that I can look up too because I had people doing that to me my entire life, kind of just for once I want to be the younger sister or know how it feels to have someone look out for me and take care of me not just one person but a couple that I could also look out for in return. Also I looked over it a couple times I couldn't spot out the Song reference but am also pretty tired. This kittens had a crazy week.

 

[Joediaper]

I find that I need more then just a parental figure

Totally feel you on this one! I was the baby most of the time and never really got to experience independence until I was 6 or 7. Even then it was very limited. I had to watch other kids play outside through a window up until then and if I was outside was very closely monitored. When I did get that independence it was bliss and found myself gravitating towards younger kids because they were playing games and with toys I never really got to. They seemed to look up to me and I really enjoyed that. I felt like the older sibling enjoying time with my sisters and brothers. It's something far more than parental involvement could ever be. Really hard to explain unless you've been there. An incredibly powerful feeling of endearment is about the best I can say to even attempt to.

couldn't spot out the Song reference

Someone might find it eventually. It is pretty vague. I will reveal it if no one gets it. The song does kind of fit the situation if that helps.

 

[SparkleAlchemist]

I have scene siblings. They're a different vibe than having a mommy or daddy. I have a big brother and big sister who when we hangout we mostly play games and do little things, but they also take on that sibling role. Like my big brother and I tease eachother and usually end up wrestling at some point cuz I took his stuffie or if there is a big around we are fast to tattle on each other. My big sister and I are good friends and we snuggle and play together, but she'll also punish me if I'm bad. I'd still love to find a mommy, but I also am really thankful for the connections I have.

 

[Belarin]

Having read your other post I'm glad you found the courage to go along, it can be quite daunting being the new face at a munch but my experience has always been good. It's nice to know it went well and you made some friends.

as for the feeling like wanting to be a little sister that is quite understandable, as has been mentioned you have to remember that they are also going to have a certain headspace that they like to be in but have a little chat with them and you may find they are willing to support you there.

I think it probably at least in part comes from the fact that it was a new experience for you and you know these people are also littles and possibly a bit more experienced (at least in the social side of it) so the feeling of wanting to be a little sibling can be explained as your recognition of that and the desire to learn from them and have someone to look up to which is very much a younger sibling response to have. I imagine if you were to discuss it with them they would understand those feelings quite well, I know if I was at a munch and a new person showed up and then began expressing an interest like this I would probably be quite happy to help out and I think most others would too.

 

[katierichards7777]

I'm going to be going to the next Munch they host locally as well I think, I'm still trying to be more outgoing so hopefully in time this feeling will change so I can play with the big girls better.

May I ask what part of the world this is being held?

 

[LittleKittenEmily]

May I ask what part of the world this is being held?

Munch? They have them everywhere in every states and province, most cities have one you just got to look for your local Littles Munch.

 

[LittleKittenEmily]

Having read your other post I'm glad you found the courage to go along, it can be quite daunting being the new face at a munch but my experience has always been good. It's nice to know it went well and you made some friends.

as for the feeling like wanting to be a little sister that is quite understandable, as has been mentioned you have to remember that they are also going to have a certain headspace that they like to be in but have a little chat with them and you may find they are willing to support you there.

I think it probably at least in part comes from the fact that it was a new experience for you and you know these people are also littles and possibly a bit more experienced (at least in the social side of it) so the feeling of wanting to be a little sibling can be explained as your recognition of that and the desire to learn from them and have someone to look up to which is very much a younger sibling response to have. I imagine if you were to discuss it with them they would understand those feelings quite well, I know if I was at a munch and a new person showed up and then began expressing an interest like this I would probably be quite happy to help out and I think most others would too.

I think It worked out pretty well, have yet to have a playdate. But got two Adult Babygirls like me that I did become friends with and am currently talking too, since I'm new to the community I'm pretty sure they are going to help guide me. Also I think it will turn into a Sisterly dynamic which I'm excited about, but as the Little with the Youngest Little age I'm happy to be playing with the Big girls and am working on scheduling my first Play date. 🤩🧚‍♀️

When I see them next I think I might mention the bit about my Little side looking up to them and Craving Guidance.

 

[katierichards7777]

Munch? They have them everywhere in every states and province, most cities have one you just got to look for your local Littles Munch.

And can I ask how you find them? I am soooo interested in this now that you have described it.

 

[LittleKittenEmily]

And can I ask how you find them? I am soooo interested in this now that you have described it.

I would say use Fetlife and also attend a munch meeting. I found my local Munch through Fetlife. If anyone knows any other methods please comment below.

 

[Belarin]

And can I ask how you find them? I am soooo interested in this now that you have described it.

I would say use Fetlife and also attend a munch meeting. I found my local Munch through Fetlife. If anyone knows any other methods please comment below.

Yeah Fetlife is a good place to find local munches but most of them will be for general kink and you won't be guaranteed to meet other little's there, you might be lucky enough to find a little's/ABDL munch near you though depending on where you live. FL can be awkward to navigate though and also a little overwhelming for those who are not exactly into other kinky things.

 

[Joediaper]

creeps and weirdoes

Creep - Radiohead ------------ Yeah I know... I said it was vague. LoL

One of my life anthems. The others are:

Never Growing Up - Mathieu Koss and Aloe Blacc

Chicken Fried - Zac Brown Band