as your body adapts and you get use to peeing in your diaper that you have learned to trust you will be carry out a one to one conversation while peeing as you stop noticing or worrying it’s happening.
I have only ventured out for a few short shopping trips but I took a lot of precautions. I wore plastic diaper covers over my diaper (leak protection) and then control panties over the diaper covers (to quiet things down and reduce any bulge). I wore jeans but left my shirt untucked to cover my butt.
I guess you could say I was a bit paranoid. But what a thrill wetting on the checkout line with no worry about leaking.