Angelic you are always aiming the "right place" the boys have to make sure that thing is pointed in safe direction well loading. When I became IC I was mortified and scared beyond belief, especially when around other people, that I would leak, but then again insurance diapers are of dubious quality, imagine sitting in a circle with friends and realizing that you were leaking , it's kinda freaky and you will make a face , nobody will know why but you, I was kinda lucky in that the meeting was being filmed , so I watched the face and my reaction when it happened and made sure that it never happened again, I made sure of that by getting a diaper I could trust and live with.
Everyone is correct in saying others do not care of your bathroom habits, Wether that is a bathroom taped around your waist or Wether that's going to a tiled place with alot of porcelain and is very rarely cleaned properly and generally is a place of filth.
It takes far more personal care and levels of cleanliness to be a diaper wearer , Wether because of medical condition or "recreational" use .
Trust your diaper or get a new brand that you can, you don't go out to dinner at a place the food sucks and continue going there, you vote with your money, so elect a competent diaper to office.
The best way to be casual is to use mental imagery to abolish the terror of going in public, just as our bodies are all different so are our minds, but generally distract yourself with something you find entertains you Wether it's imagining a certain someplace or line from a song , a favorite quote anything that shuts the fear out of your mind . Remember Wether this is Medical, Spiritual, sexual or recreational it's the way you were created , some people are born to be different, honor that and embrace it ( or let it embrace you).
Monday is independence day, tape up and celebrate your independence from that nasty little room, have a picnic, watch some fireworks and enjoy the day diapered , every time you wear it gets easier, and the sooner you accept your diapers, the sooner you get over your diapers the sooner they are not a barrier to living .no matter why you wear or for what once they become a part of who you are , the easier it gets, don't worry about bulky if that is how you look whenever people see you they don't think twice , nor do they notice. Because it's irrelevant people have what's called change blindness, take full advantage of that, wear a diaper you can trust and works, don't worry about the size except they fit and work for your purpose, IC people are out there everywhere and don't focus on there diapers, they just live , that's a take away lesson for everybody.
Happy fourth wearever you are and whatever your wearing , eat some watermelon and let nature take its course .
Sent from my SM-T810 using Tapatalk