How do some of you deal with relationships while diapers exist in our lives.

PaddedInPuyallup

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I hid my love of diapers from every girl I ever dated. Then, I hid it from my wife until we were married 11 years. I was tired of hiding it and wearing behind her back so I wanted to finally come clean. Well, it didn’t go well at all and I almost lost her and my kids that day. Here we are 4 years later and while she still hates and is disgusted by the idea of me wearing, we are still married. I just have to keep my diapers away from her so she can live as if they don’t exist.
 
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Seasonedcitizen

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When you mention diapers, people first think of pooping not peeing. Keep that in mind when you tell people about your diaper wearing.
 

ShyatFirst

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Maybe sometimes, but it's better than being with the wrong person in my eyes.

Romantic relationships are nice and all but not everything.
I dunno, I'd like to be in a relationship and still be accepted. Diapers by myself is still fun, but gets boring after a while ya know.
 

PaddedInPuyallup

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I dunno, I'd like to be in a relationship and still be accepted. Diapers by myself is still fun, but gets boring after a while ya know.
I think that’s what he is saying though. It’s better not to be in a relationship than being in one where the person doesn’t accept your diapers. Trust me, I know how much it sucks to be with somebody who loathes the diapers. As I mentioned before, my wife hates it and makes me hide everything about it and it is a little depressing sometimes. The advice is to wait for that special person who accepts your diapers or even actually participates because you will be much happier in the long run.
 

ninjagrl

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I think that’s what he is saying though. It’s better not to be in a relationship than being in one where the person doesn’t accept your diapers. Trust me, I know how much it sucks to be with somebody who loathes the diapers. As I mentioned before, my wife hates it and makes me hide everything about it and it is a little depressing sometimes. The advice is to wait for that special person who accepts your diapers or even actually participates because you will be much happier in the long run.
So Padded...you don’t have to answer but I’m curious, why didn’t you leave your marriage if she can’t accept your diapers, etc?
 

woolybobs

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My girlfriend and I have been together for 14 years and i told her about my fetish within the first 6 months of our relationship. As i had bowel issues for years i used that as an introduction and admitted I enjoyed wearing them too.
Initially it went well with her letting me wear quite a bit, then when she got pregnant the fetish hit the barriers, 'there will be enough nappies around this house, don't need you adding to them as well'.....

Think she expected me to be able to just switch off my nappy obsession but it doesn't work like that as we know.

Over the years its been a stick she has beaten me with, a carrot to dangle in front of me, bribery tool and the source of many arguments.

Now, its different, the kids are older and we can go away for the weekend, for a dirty weekend usually. I fill my bag with my weekend cloths and line the bottom with nappies. She knows exactly what I'm up to but only mentions it on the first night in the room. Many hours are spent with us both wearing and playing with each other.

The same is true at home some nights, most recently I had us both padded which is always her suggestion, she wet her nappy whilst in bed and i had to change her before carrying on with the nights activities. She knows how turned on i get about nappy wearing and I think she is doing it mainly to please me which is nice but I always make sure she is satisfied.

The agreement is its kept in the bedroom, I like covert wearing whilst out and about, she thinks people will notice but its taking some time to convince her otherwise!
 
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