- Diaper Lover
Do you have relationships wearing diapers? Are they open or secret? What are the paths some of you ventured to find a relationship and what is the quality of your relationship if you're in one?
I'm so afraid to mention this to a girl I'd be so embarrassed if a girl knew I liked diapers and wetting my pantsIf you need to wear diapers, there really is no way to keep it secret forever. The real question is at what point you have the talk.
I think of it like this: Do you want your partner finding out when they slip their hand in your pants in your first intimate moment togerther? Or maybe when you sleep together and wet the bed? Most of us don't want that. It's so much easier to just say, "I have a health issue ..." or "There's something you probably should know before we get any closer ..." And it will be a lot easier on you if rejection comes fairly early in the relationship. It's never easy, but if you get deeply attached and then it comes out and you are rejected, that would be really hard.
Once I told my wife the true reason I was wearing diapers ( I fibbed and said I needed to) she was more than willing to accommodate me in my desire to become diaper dependent again.My wife has no problem with me being in nappies. In fact she suggested them as my incontinence got worse.
I found all my normal underwear in the rag bag a few years back. My wife said "Not much point in keeping them is there?" She just accepted I wear nappies and incontinence pads etc nowOnce I told my wife the true reason I was wearing diapers ( I fibbed and said I needed to) she was more than willing to accommodate me in my desire to become diaper dependent again.
She went and gathered up all my underwear and tossed them in the burn barrel and gave me her big smile and said now you ain’t got no choice but to wear diapers.
Came to find out she secretly loved the fact I was wearing a diaper the first time and wanted me to be in diapers from that day on.
My wife is so helpful when it comes to keeping me in diapers 24/7.I found all my normal underwear in the rag bag a few years back. My wife said "Not much point in keeping them is there?" She just accepted I wear nappies and incontinence pads etc now
That’s a tough situation because you are assuming you KNOW her reaction and more then likely you’ll be accurate but yeah there’s a lot riding on telling her vs not. Good luck either way.My wife who has been in my life for 15 years, married for 7 years has no idea.
I often wonder if my wife would be more accepting of me wearing womens underwear or wearing diapers. I dont wear womens underwear or have any interest to, only diapers.
I feel like she would be more accepting of the womens underwear.
Wearing a diaper is one thing, but I fear she would be disgusted by the idea of me peeing myself multiple times and spending a few hours in a wet diaper, and being around her with a pee filled diaper AND ENJOYING IT. It sounds crazy even to me when I actually type it!
I've tried hinting around and I have an idea of how she feels about diapers, at best I MIGHT be able convince her to wear a diaper to something like the New York new years eve thing, but thats only because she has seen people wearing adult diapers on TV and having fun with it.
I think its best for me and my relationship to keep this a secret, we have a great marriage and life together with no problems.