Livingandlearning
Contributor
- Messages
- 2
- Role
- Other
Hello. I have been doing research for a bit and I came across this forum which has been extremely helpful. The guy that I am dating is a DL. To me, that is not an issue. I am completely accepting and don’t mind if he wears them around me or whatever the case may be. As long as he feel safe and secure, It truly doesn’t bother me.
One thing I have noticed though, he talks about wearing diapers so much that I don’t know how else to tell him to stop. it’s just too much. Almost every conversation we have and most of the pictures he sends me are with his diaper. I’m all for it but it just makes me uncomfortable when it’s the constant topic of conversation. I don’t want to seem insensitive but sometimes it’s like “OK I get it, you wear diapers, tell me about your day”
Us dating is fairly new so we are just getting used to each other. I don’t want to hurt his feelings and I’ve never been in this situation before so I want to ask and see what the appropriate approach would be. But, I would also like to know if this is going to be a constant situation.
Personally, I will not participate with him or join him but he is free to make whatever decisions he wants. How can I bring this up without hurting his feelings?
One thing I have noticed though, he talks about wearing diapers so much that I don’t know how else to tell him to stop. it’s just too much. Almost every conversation we have and most of the pictures he sends me are with his diaper. I’m all for it but it just makes me uncomfortable when it’s the constant topic of conversation. I don’t want to seem insensitive but sometimes it’s like “OK I get it, you wear diapers, tell me about your day”
Us dating is fairly new so we are just getting used to each other. I don’t want to hurt his feelings and I’ve never been in this situation before so I want to ask and see what the appropriate approach would be. But, I would also like to know if this is going to be a constant situation.
Personally, I will not participate with him or join him but he is free to make whatever decisions he wants. How can I bring this up without hurting his feelings?