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[annierighthurr]

omg
my mom and i's memory cards got mixed up somehow

AND SHE SAW A WHOLE BUNCH OF PICTURES OF ME IN DIAPERS.

I found out through my sister who knows.

I'm so scared. i dont even know what to do or think

there were also sexy pictures n there for my boyfriend (no diaperrs)

holy shit

what the fuck do i do

 

[Pojo]

You might as well just confront her about it...Otherwise you'll be delaying the inevitable

 

[Valentine]

Run away and join a circus?

Or maybe what Pojo said.

 

[Nam Repaid]

Tell her your a big girl now and can be the little girl / sexy girl that you want to be.

Be not ashamed!

Nam

 

[g6s]

You might as well just confront her about it...Otherwise you'll be delaying the inevitable

or most parents wont even bother to bring up such a private matter with their adult kids. if worst comes to worse, explain that you're safe but that she really shouldn't be prying. there's no reason to come clean about everything.

 

[Aki]

You follow all the advice you heard about people finding out. ^^;
And delete diaper pics off of memory cards, for future reference, I guess.
All the best luck to you.

 

[Fire2box]

Your 19 a legal adult and wear diapers is pretty safe. Much safer then most anything else these days.


Anyways I suggest you do nothing about it other then asking for your memory card('s) back. If she brings it up either tell her the truth or tell her its personal.

 

[dogboy]

You might ask your mom if she has any questions, rather than volunteer too much information. See what she wants to know. I went through this with my mom when I was 21, and I survived. She was very conservative, and active in her church, etc. I think once she found the diapers and the gay porn, she had a pretty good picture. She also knew I was spending a lot of time with her newspaper boy, so she knew I was on shaky ground, so she took me to a shrink at a big state residence institution. After two visits I convinced her that I was who I was, I wasn't going to change, but I wasn't going to do anything stupid.

Let's face it, we are complicated people, with our own set of quirks that makes getting along in life difficult. Your mom will have to re-learn who you are and accept you. I suspect she may have already had a clue. Sometimes we don't keep things as well hidden as we think.

I wish you the best. No matter what, keep you cool, and try to explain as best you can.

 

[Yawgmoth]

I'm going to suggest that you abide by the advice given in the post above...

"Keep your cool."

 

[T00L]

That is really unfortunate I wouldn't tell her more than she asks because chances are she's as awkward about this as you are. Just try and forget about it is what I would do.

 

[kite]

to prove to her you're an adult now making adult decisions with your life you're going to have to handle this situation as such.
it sucks, but like dogboy mentioned, keep your cool and explain yourself with pride in who you are to your mother. also like said, there is much, much worse you could be doing to yourself.

 

[IncompleteDude]

First you die a bit inside, then you stand up for yourself, then you listen to endless lectures, crying and general insanity while refusing to debate it. Eventually, it dies down and becomes some kind of family secret/shame. Finally, you thank God you're going to Hawaii.

 

[annierighthurr]

First you die a bit inside, then you stand up for yourself, then you listen to endless lectures, crying and general insanity while refusing to debate it. Eventually, it dies down and becomes some kind of family secret/shame. Finally, you thank God you're going to Hawaii.

That made me smile..


I have a headache. I'd like to be in Hawaii right now.

 

[Lazy]

Sorry to hear it :[

I've had a similar experience...

 

[Fire2box]

Sorry to hear it :[

I've had a similar experience...

Care to share or give some advice?

 

[Lazy]

Care to share or give some advice?

Well, i'm a closeted gay: After a fun night out I had innocently given my date a kiss good night for showing me a fun time. This was outside my house at night and I assumed that everyone was asleep.

That wasn't the case. My dad heard the car pull up and was intrigued as to who it might be since we live in a pretty quiet neighborhood and well, that's what he witnessed...


Anyway, at most it'll be something she or you might bring up when either of you are ready and you can handle it from there. Just because you delve in some less-than-normal behaviors doesn't excuse you from being a good daughter who she wants to be happy! Besides if you have any sort of medical reason or inclination to using diapers would help to mention.

My dad used to buy me goodnites because I used to bedwet. But I was the one who asked for them XD

 

[EpicPie]

Say it was for PlayBoy.

 

[Kovy]

Keep a balanced mind. Don't panic or act suspicious. If she confronts you, don't look too guilty. Act like it might be a little out of the ordinary, but if she asks, tell her it's harmless. If she asks details about ABDL, make sure to say that it does not involve real children. Good luck Annie.

 

[dprdinky]

You never know what or how you're mom will react or act toward you. I'm not sure what I'd do if I found my daughter in pictures with diapers on. I did find some meant for her bf/husband, but thought nothing more of it and didn't bring any attention to her at all. Pretty innouncent stuff as far as I'm concerned.

You are an adult now, to me it shouldn't be a big deal.
Good luck and let us know how it turns out.

 

[Secret]

Any updates on your situation?