Hey there and welcome to ADISC. I hope you can find friends and answers and enjoy being part of the community. One of the things that makes ADISC special is that it is a support community, but also that folks can find others who have similar interests to themselves (beyond just diapers). So perhaps you can share a little more about yourself and get to know others as you also let others know about you.
It sounds like from your post that you are a possibly a health care worker (you said you work in a hospital). I am not sure why working in a hospital wouldn't allow you to wear diapers, as that is possibly one of the most likely places where folks might understand.
But in any case again, welcome! And I can't help but go waaay back to "The Day After" when I hear of Lawrence, Kansas.