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havelockellis

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Hi, I go by Havelock (taken from the psychologist Havelock Ellis). I travel quite a bit, mostly US/UK/EU with a bit of Asia. I also grew up splitting time between the US and EU. I’m a scientific mind with a bit of time spent on psychology and anthropology. I like understanding history, people, societies and social norms. I also like the craft of story telling and narrative.

For years I thought I had a pee fetish focused mainly on public peeing but I think some of the psychology overlaps with AB/DL. Diapers are really not my thing. While I have a few good memories of being put in a diaper by a nanny to “go pipi" at a young age, those are pretty isolated. I occasionally look at porn of girls peeing in diapers but my preference is seeing peeing in public and I don’t really have a desire to wear a diaper.

What I think may be related and I tend to think about fondly is when the nannies were potty training me / when I was young and they helped me take a "nature pee" or pipi outside. I have many good memories of being sweetly guided to various places outside to pee and being directed to pee on a variety of things (walls, car wheels, garages, sidewalks, trees bushes etc.) in a variety of situations. It always felt like they put my needs ahead of public perceptions or any concerns about soiling things. Most of this took place in Europe (Spain and France) where outdoor peeing is accepted. This was always contrasted with much more strict upbringing in the US where such peeing was not allowed or had to be uncomfortably delayed and hidden.

As a result I've become fascinated by the significant cultural differences around the world to peeing, pottying, toilets etc.

I’ve also found I enjoy relationships where my female partners act like the nannies of my youth, check if I need to pipi, and guide me to a place I can have a potty break outside. If they unzip me, help me and hold me that adds to the experience. If they disregard society in nonchalantly choosing a convenient location that will leave a mess/puddle, that’s even better.

I've had a few partners who will indulge me in this role, but only one who I think could truly empathize with my psychology. This ex-girlfriend spent her early life in in China where they use split crotch pants instead of diapers. Thus, the same feelings many AB/DL have about diapers, she had about being held to pee outside. We would often role play and switch roles and she really got into it.

Anyway, that's my intro. I'm here to learn. Am I unusual in AB/DL world? Does anyone else share this overlapping interest in being helped with nature pees?
 
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I imagine this is probably more common than we think. While I've never heard of it, I can see how your story probably plays out for others as well. There certainly is some overlap that makes sense. The nanny figure, the submissive role, the peeing, the possibility of being seen etc..
 
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Welcome and enjoy
 

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havelockellis said:
Hi, I go by Havelock (taken from the psychologist Havelock Ellis). I travel quite a bit, mostly US/UK/EU with a bit of Asia. I also grew up splitting time between the US and EU. I’m a scientific mind with a bit of time spent on psychology and anthropology. I like understanding history, people, societies and social norms. I also like the craft of story telling and narrative.

For years I thought I had a pee fetish focused mainly on public peeing but I think some of the psychology overlaps with AB/DL. Diapers are really not my thing. While I have a few good memories of being put in a diaper by a nanny to “go pipi" at a young age, those are pretty isolated. I occasionally look at porn of girls peeing in diapers but my preference is seeing peeing in public and I don’t really have a desire to wear a diaper.

What I think may be related and I tend to think about fondly is when the nannies were potty training me / when I was young and they helped me take a "nature pee" or pipi outside. I have many good memories of being sweetly guided to various places outside to pee and being directed to pee on a variety of things (walls, car wheels, garages, sidewalks, trees bushes etc.) in a variety of situations. It always felt like they put my needs ahead of public perceptions or any concerns about soiling things. Most of this took place in Europe (Spain and France) where outdoor peeing is accepted. This was always contrasted with much more strict upbringing in the US where such peeing was not allowed or had to be uncomfortably delayed and hidden.

As a result I've become fascinated by the significant cultural differences around the world to peeing, pottying, toilets etc.

I’ve also found I enjoy relationships where my female partners act like the nannies of my youth, check if I need to pipi, and guide me to a place I can have a potty break outside. If they unzip me, help me and hold me that adds to the experience. If they disregard society in nonchalantly choosing a convenient location that will leave a mess/puddle, that’s even better.

I've had a few partners who will indulge me in this role, but only one who I think could truly empathize with my psychology. This ex-girlfriend spent her early life in in China where they use split crotch pants instead of diapers. Thus, the same feelings many AB/DL have about diapers, she had about being held to pee outside. We would often role play and switch roles and she really got into it.

Anyway, that's my intro. I'm here to learn. Am I unusual in AB/DL world? Does anyone else share this overlapping interest in being helped with nature pees?
Hello and welcome. I don’t think you are unusual, I think we all have things that we prefer, which is great, I personally love reading what others like to do. This is a great site 👍🏻
 
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warmfeeling said:
Hello and welcome. I don’t think you are unusual, I think we all have things that we prefer, which is great, I personally love reading what others like to do. This is a great site 👍🏻
😊
 

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Hello and welcome! 😊
Plenty on this site for you to learn about ! I'm Kitty, both AB and DL , but these days I don't really indulge. But I use my pacifier daily , and miss it when I am working etc ..
As for work I am a 'jack of all trades' but currently I work as a cook and a gardener, both jobs I love ❤️, so I'm very lucky at the moment.
I'm sure you will prove to have many interesting things to say , and I look forward to your contribution 😀 😊.
Enjoy the site!
 
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Oh! I forgot to answer your question! 🤣..
So , no you are not unusual, many people have many varied interests and peeing is not uncommon, as I have heard this before and I can easily see how that came to be..
My festish started when I was "diaper punished "as a very young person, by a horrible abusive baby sitter . I obsessed over how it felt , and I became Hooked on diapers for life.
 
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Welcome to ADISC!

I'm a confirmed AB, and I grew up in the US but have lived in the UK. I've had a number of 'babysitters' over the past few decades, one of whom enjoyed taking me out into my fenced backyard and helping me enrich the nitrogen content of the soil. As much as I love diapers, you're entirely right ... there's no feeling quite like having a sweet, maternal woman help you pee!

I hope you enjoy your time here.
 
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Welcome! I would say it's a little unusual for this community for the interest to be peeing outside of pants, but there is a whole community of pee enjoyers outside of the directly sexual or diapered in the world! Have you ever looked into Omorashi community at all?

I've also had internet roleplay partners who are part of the ABDL community who I've wrote about non-wetting "potty training" stuff with. So, m point is you're most certainly not alone even within this community, and outside of it there's a great number of people who enjoy at least tangentially similar things as you.

I myself was interested in general "pee problem" things before I became interested in diapers! In fact I would even say diapers are not my favorite thing within "ABDL spectrum" at all! They're just a point where lots of similar people with similar interests to me have a common interest. There are things that are "diaper-related" that I enjoy more as both a comfort aspect and a sexual aspect than diapers!


I've been in USA my whole life, by the way, just to attach my opinion to the demographics poll as others in this thread have done.
 
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Nothing wrong there at all! Hello and welcome!
 
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Welcome, from Canada! I deeply share your exploration into the psychology of this, and habits and norms over time. Exploring the psychology literature on the whole range of related fetishes means I completely understand and smile at the stories and writing connected to your user name.

I do think you’re a little unusual here, unfortunately… There is not a lot of writing about your particular sweet spot of most special interest. But it’s so closely related… And maybe your presence will be the gravitational attractor for that part.

I hope you find lots of what you are looking for in this very welcoming place!
 
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Thanks for the welcomes everyone!
 
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Hello and welcome!

That was a really good introduction! You're certainly not the only one on the site with interests in psychology and every so often a thread does chance upon cultural differences. I don't think you're unsual for here and hope you enjoy your time here! :)
 
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havelockellis said:
I’ve also found I enjoy relationships where my female partners act like the nannies of my youth, check if I need to pipi, and guide me to a place I can have a potty break outside. If they unzip me, help me and hold me that adds to the experience. If they disregard society in nonchalantly choosing a convenient location that will leave a mess/puddle, that’s even better.
Hi, and welcome.
My little self finds it really really funny your desires. So, If you are offended by anything that I say, I'm deeply sorry 🙇‍♀️, sometimes I just couldn't control myself.
But it's so awesome!!! You would activate my mischief side really badly. The part of 'disregarding society' I understand it as a mixture of feelings very intense.

I had a nanny for so many years of my childhood, but I really don't have any 'kinks' about them... when I think about it's so strange. You are completely normal, you have a normal life, just a curious fantasy.
 
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