I have 0 AB tendencies. Not my thing. I enjoy raising my 2 sons with my wife. I play show pitch softball. I play bass for my church. I love all Philadelphia sports (sometimes embarrassing in itself lol). What are some of your interests?
This is hard. I'm still trying to figure out my own way through those same feelings, but I will say this: Romans 3:23 provides some good context. We are all sinners, and we all fall short of the glory of God. Regardless of if God thinks AB/DL is a sin or not, I'm still a sinner in many ways. Everybody I know is a sinner. We all fall short of perfection. Even the person you most admire in the world is a sinner and falls short of the glory of God. So we are all in the same boat as the rest of humanity. And God loves us anyway. God loves YOU anyway. I honestly and firmly believe that.It's made me feel guilty, as if I'm doing something wrong. That is one of my biggest struggles, is feeling like I'm sinning for what I'm doing.
I have not been able to participate much. Probably a lot of my own doing. My wife says she is ok with it, but I have a hard time wrapping my head around her being ok with me liking to wear and use diapers, when I am supposed to be the man of the house, the protector, you know? I wore the last 2 days basically all day while she was at work and I had the boys. I can get away with that now while they are still young, but once they are older, that too, will become more difficult. So, yea, it's been what I've been kinda battling for years now.