:detective3 I echo what some others have said. If your roommate hasn't brought this up, there really isn't any need to do so.
In all likelihood if he hasn't said something, he may have been just as embarrassed as you in finding them and really doesn't want to bring it up. It is quite possible that they regretted the fact they saw them at all as it was an obvious intrusion upon your privacy. And I know, I know, there are a lot of others who might find this as something they could give you a hard time about, but the fact that nothing was said is a good indication this isn't the case.
As others have done, I offer you a big hug, as this was obviously a traumatic experience and one with which I can relate. :hug: --While in college, I shared an apartment with three others. We each had our own rooms and there were two bathrooms. Well, without going into unnecessary details, my roommate happened to discover one of my used diapers. There was no doubt that he had seen it, as the circumstances were such that it would have been a miracle had he not done so. I was so embarrassed!! :eek!:
I cried inside and couldn't believe I was so careless. I waited for something to be said, but there never was. We remained roommates throughout the year and had a lot of great times together, but nothing ever came of this.
My guesses are that your experience will be quite similar. Do not fret or lose any more sleep over this. If it does come up, simply share what you have with us here, in that you have to wear at times because of sometimes wetting the bed. Only a real jerk is going to give you grief over that. Since your roommate hasn't given any evidence of doing that, then my guess is that any worries you have are unnecessary.
Having said all that, can I share another experience on the flip side of this?
--While staring a new work position, I rented a house with two other friends. Each of us had our own rooms and shared the living room and kitchen areas. I was asked by one of my friends to watch his dog while he left for vacation. His room had an outside entrance and the dog was mostly just in that area of the house. When I came home from work and went to check on the dog, I found a couple of wet diapers the dog had drug out of his trash!
While my first reaction was, holy cow, I am not the only one wearing diapers around here, my instinct was actually that he must truly wear because of a medical need. Even though my reasons for wearing is simply being AB/DL, I really didn't assume that he might be. But the next day, the dog had partially drug out from under his bed a baby print cloth diaper holder full of diapers!
At that point I actually realized that most likely he was AB as I wouldn't expect someone who was just incontinent to store their diapers in such an obviously baby related method. However, even though my interest was thoroughly peaked, I never brought myself to talking with him about it. I simply put the cloth diaper holder back under his bed and disposed of the diapers in the trash where they were originally placed.
I share that with you simply to note that even while being an AB/DL, I didn't find it necessary to talk with my friend of my discovery. I am more than willing to bet that since your roommate said nothing about it, that he does not hold anything against you and doesn't really see the need to talk with you about it.
Hug your plushie if you have one, and don't give it further thought.
:detective3 All is well.