and welcome to Adisc. Apart from Anime and trucks do you have any other interests or hobbies outside the ab/dl world? Do you work, do you have a partner and if so are they supportive. The more detail you give in your inttrothe more attention it will get. If you need ideas, have a look at the top of the page you will see a link entitled ADISC Intros, Rules and tips. Click on it and have a read there is a lot of information in it that is useful to new members.
Then find some of the forums that you like the look of, join them and join in with the conversations (threads), but whatever you do, enjoy.