Welcome wildcardsoldier, I'm glad you found Adisc, it is really a great place to talk to people and get advice. Asking for advice in general is kinda general, but I guess the best thing I can think of, is love what makes you you, and don't be ashamed of it. What else are you into besides AB/DL? Usually introductions like this go to another forum section, but I'm assuming this thread will get transferred there soon. Do you have any things going on in your life that you are looking for tips on? Or has life treated you pretty good?