Sorry I didn't introduce myself sooner. I've never posted in these forums before. I'm a happily married man, with 1 son. I've been incontinent going on 16yrs now. The cause was finally determined to be chemical damage from exposure to agricultural pesticides. I spent a couple of yrs. going to the Mayo Clinic. I have a nuerogenic bladder, and to large degree nuerogenic bowel also. So needless to say I've been diapered 24/7for 16 yrs. When the damage occurred I was farming. I eventually decided to give that up for starting my own trucking co. A few yrs ago my son was telling my wife (his mother) and myself how much he wanted dad home. I had the opportunity to sell the equipment and get a job as a mechanic so I did.