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No, this really isn't that kind of site. While most everyone here is keen on diapers (a few are just friends and well-wishers), that's not all we're interested in. Share some of your other interests and you'll likely find others who feel similarly. You'll get out of this place what you can put into it. You don't have to get into any uncomfortable details, but the books you read, the movies you like, the music you enjoy, or what constitutes a conventionally fun day for you; these are all decent places to start off.
Welcome to the forums, Boots!
If you're still stuck with anything else you wanna say have a look at what others have said; particularly intros by returning members from our old forums, who have been there and done that for the second time =P
But yeah - sharing your interests = pinpointing people with similar interests = meeting new people / new friends = fun times to be had on ADISC! ^^,