Welcome dadboddl ! I am a DL from the old school living it up here in New York City. I came out many years ago to my husband, and he just looked the other way and referred to it as "that's your thing" attitude. So really no fun there. He was a great guy and a good husband, just not into diapers. I pray you and the wife enjoy it and have tons of fun with it. I have enjoyed it many years and will enjoy it many more. I hope to hear some good stories and posts from you. Get them diapers all messy now and have fun !