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Unfortunately, for as much as I love Heath Ledger, I confess myself disappointed and angry that a drug-overdose was his undoing. It might never be known whether or not it was intentional or accidental, but your need to care for your child must, must, must transcend any choice of yours to recreationally imbibe a potentially dangerous substance of any sort.