having a bad day

[AnonKiba]

ok ive my day has been pretty good except for just know when my car stopped working again (won't start) and i have bean under a lot of stress lately mostly because i can't figure out if I'm gay, strait, bie, or none of the above and because of my car not working i have just ben pushed over the edge again I'm on the verge of another nervous brake down i mean right now I'm about to start crying and i don't know what to think or do any more. and the only resin my parents haven't noticed ive bean stressed is because i am really good at hiding/suppressing my emotion.

 

[Pojo]

Just...Relax...Do something relaxing, and just forget about everything, if only for a short while

 

[dogboy]

I've had two nervous break downs, which are called psychotic breaks, one when I was in 7th grade, and one my senior year in college. That one sent me to the state mental facility where I was an out patient. I think maybe you should tell your parents. I broke down in front of parents and company while eating dinner, so yeah, they guessed something was very wrong. Unfortunately they searched my room when I went back to college and guess what they found, but at least that brought it all out into the forefront. They also found gay porn, so all of this had to be discussed. I of course don't know your parents, but mine were sympathetic. I wouldn't say accepting, but sympathetic. If things are getting very tough, you need someone to help you. Psychotic breaks can be devastating, so don't take it lightly. Some people never recover. I've seen them, and you don't want to go there.

Having said that, get your car repaired, and that will help a great deal. Try to eliminate the things which are troubling you. Make a list if you have to, and work on them one by one. This may be a good place where your parents can help. None of us get through this life all on our own. That's why we have family and friends. Good luck to you.

 

[AnonKiba]

i wish i could relax all i got forward to tonight is my parents coming home and bitching about how i didn't do any thing all day and my dad making me go out in the negative 10 weather and clean the wires on my truck again. I can't get this stuff off my mind I am freaking out, i've cried like 4 time in the last half an hour. I have frequent nervous brake downs.

 

[dprdinky]

Sounds like you need someone to talk to. We are all ears my friend. We know what it's like to hold all this stuff inside and unable to share with anyone about it. So let it go, you are safe with us.

((((((((((((((((((((((((((hugs)))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))

 

[FluffyFluffers]

*gives you a beer*

Just relax.
And do not go psycho office dude.Thats always important.


Do you like girls?
Do you like guys?
Do you sexually like boys?
Do you sexually like girls?
Do you like the puppy down the road?


1.asexual
2. asexual
3. Gay
4. not gay
5. developing teenager
3&4 you are Bi

 

[AnonKiba]

i have bean raised by a family that highly believes in the bible my mom thinks all gays and lesbians are going to hell my dad probably thinks that to but he is a brick wall and shows no emotion at all, if i told him i was a flaming homo when he came home he would say nothing get drunk and go to bed. i told my mom what i was feeling and she told me it was a thing all teenagers go throe and i wasn't gay at all, and she keeps trying to make me go out with this girl (to prove I'm not gay) who i am not attracted to at all and she just keeps pushing and pushing I'm about to scream at her to fuck off

 

[Serendiapity]

i have bean raised by a family that highly believes in the bible my mom thinks all gays and lesbians are going to hell my dad probably thinks that to but he is a brick wall and shows no emotion at all, if i told him i was a flaming homo when he came home he would say nothing get drunk and go to bed. i told my mom what i was feeling and she told me it was a thing all teenagers go throe and i wasn't gay at all, and she keeps trying to make me go out with this girl (to prove I'm not gay) who i am not attracted to at all and she just keeps pushing and pushing I'm about to scream at her to fuck off

It doesn't really matter right now. Don't force yourself into anything. Sexuality will come when it is ready. I knew for 100% certain I was straight when I was 14, but I was sort of unsure before that. Don't worry about that, there are more important things in the meantime.

 

[dprdinky]

That's one way to handle your mom.

I'm not sure how old you are although I'm assuming you are a teenager. Yes all teenagers go through a period of not knowing or questioning if they are this or that. One thing for sure is to keep on asking and maybe even do some exploring. There are support groups for teens who just need some assurances and questions answered.

Thanks for sharing you frustration.

 

[AnonKiba]

o ya i got one more thing this chick has a huge crash on me it is so freaken obvious. what do i do?

also i just wanted to say thank you to every one

 

[Fire2box]

well about the girl who you think has a crush on you. Well do you like her, if you do go out with her. If not tell her that your sorry but you just don't want to go out with her.

As for your sexuality I didn't really find out I was "asexual"/nonsexual until I was about 19 (at least when I finally officially knew though it may change over time). Anyways you have to be some sexuality and you WILL find out which one. Till then just relax about it, you don't need to find out your sexuality this early in life I think.

well about the girl who you think has a crush on you. Well do you like her, if you do go out with her. If not tell her that your sorry but you just don't want to go out with her.

As for your sexuality I didn't really find out I was "asexual"/nonsexual until I was about 19 (at least when I finally officially knew though it may change over time). Anyways you have to be some sexuality and you WILL find out which one. Till then just relax about it, you don't need to find out your sexuality this early in life I think.

As for the broken car, well just try and get it fixed. That's a pretty simple and straight forward plan. <_>