From my expeirance I can actually understand the guys and girls point of view for this pull up. One because I am a guy and have tried them myself and two because my ex gf wore them for a period of time so I had expeirance of how they worked for her.
So I will start out with me, well when I used them like 4-5 years ago, they were okay. I think that some people do stretch out how bad they are. They are decent I would say, specially for a beginers diaper. I can also agree that if you pee too quickly the absorption can not keep up, and can possibly over flow before the goodnite is even half full!!! Although if you were to pee a steady (not slow and not fast) stream you will be able to get in an easy 12 ounces (a whole soda can) according to several reviews and claims from company I have seen.
Now when I had my ex wear these, they did seem to work much much better for her. They rarely leaked for her, and when they did it was only a small spot or two when she sat down. I think there is a gender difference here that is causing the effectiveness to vary. Goodnites claims to position the absorbancy in a different place for females, more suitable for the way they pee, so I think that also helps keep it leaking for the girls. On top of that, most of the time girls do not pee as long or as hard as most men. I know from expeirance trust me. From what I have seen an average girl has an average pee of 10-15 seconds, which is nothing really. A goodnite would easily be able to hold that, unless you were like laying on your side of sitting with all your weight on your butt when peeing.
So overall I would say it is a good choice for females, specially beginning females. Like said before, they are great for being discreet, which works in females favor for their tight jeans and clothes, ect. Plus from what I see in my life and on this site, they really do not leak for girls much, for reasons I predicted above. So I say go for it. Plus they are SUPER cute on girls!
