General Diapering for Guys.

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Lorica

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Face it. It's a fetish and it gets you turned on.

But the eternal question is, how do I get around the erection?

Speaking from experience, and I've been doing this for years, you simply need to desensitize yourself to it. And I still get excited when when I go to change my diaper. It's just there and you have to deal with it.

The simplest solution is to point your penis toward your belly-button and simply diaper over it, snugging it up nice and tight. You can't void your bladder with an erection anyway, it's physically impossible. So at this point you have one choice, get distracted by something and it will go away. At which point you excuse yourself to the restroom and tuck it down properly. At this point you should re-adjust your tapes around your waist to give a good fit.

Generally when you diaper you want to make sure it's good and snug around your legs. Even if it's slightly uncomfortable at first, but keeping your leg cuffs nice and snug prevent leaks in a big way.

Initially I reccomend learning to diaper while laying down, it's the easiest position to work from. Open the diaper up all the way. Stretch the elastics out and fold the wings out. Either sit down on it or pull it under your bottom. Pull the front up between your legs, and check the fit. The top edge of the front of the diaper and the top edge of the back of the diaper are level with one another. They should be flush. That is how you know you have it positioned properly.

The bottom tabs are the first ones I fasten no matter how many tabs they have 4 or 6. Left side first loosely, then snug the right up nice and tight, then readjust the left to match the right. The tapes should be relatively equal in position on the front of the diaper.

Smooth the front out nice with your skin, and then attach the top tape tabs at some point on the front. Then match that on the other side. If it's loose, pull it tighter keeping the placements equal on both sides.

I always do middle tabs last, if they are there, and I always make these as tight as possible.

Now put on some regular clothes over your diaper and go do something else. Play games or read a book. Get your mind off the diaper for a while. If you are thinking about it you will simply still be turned on by it. Once your penis is flaccid, tuck it downward. Then readjust your tapes to snug up the space left behind.

"Problem" solved.

After a while, if you get to my age and you are essentially wearing 24/7. It won't be an issue. Wearing and using your diapers will simply feel like wearing bulky underwear.
 
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Face it. It's a fetish and it gets you turned on.
Maybe for you, but not for me and others.

But the eternal question is, how do I get around the erection?
What erection?

Speaking from experience, and I've been doing this for years, you simply need to desensitize yourself to it. And I still get excited when when I go to change my diaper. It's just there and you have to deal with it.

The simplest solution is to point your penis toward your belly-button and simply diaper over it, snugging it up nice and tight. You can't void your bladder with an erection anyway, it's physically impossible. So at this point you have one choice, get distracted by something and it will go away. At which point you excuse yourself to the restroom and tuck it down properly. At this point you should re-adjust your tapes around your waist to give a good fit.

Generally when you diaper you want to make sure it's good and snug around your legs. Even if it's slightly uncomfortable at first, but keeping your leg cuffs nice and snug prevent leaks in a big way.

Initially I reccomend learning to diaper while laying down, it's the easiest position to work from. Open the diaper up all the way. Stretch the elastics out and fold the wings out. Either sit down on it or pull it under your bottom. Pull the front up between your legs, and check the fit. The top edge of the front of the diaper and the top edge of the back of the diaper are level with one another. They should be flush. That is how you know you have it positioned properly.

The bottom tabs are the first ones I fasten no matter how many tabs they have 4 or 6. Left side first loosely, then snug the right up nice and tight, then readjust the left to match the right. The tapes should be relatively equal in position on the front of the diaper.

Smooth the front out nice with your skin, and then attach the top tape tabs at some point on the front. Then match that on the other side. If it's loose, pull it tighter keeping the placements equal on both sides.

I always do middle tabs last, if they are there, and I always make these as tight as possible.

Now put on some regular clothes over your diaper and go do something else. Play games or read a book. Get your mind off the diaper for a while. If you are thinking about it you will simply still be turned on by it. Once your penis is flaccid, tuck it downward. Then readjust your tapes to snug up the space left behind.

"Problem" solved.

After a while, if you get to my age and you are essentially wearing 24/7. It won't be an issue. Wearing and using your diapers will simply feel like wearing bulky underwear.
I've always had an easier time diapering myself while standing.
 

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REPOST!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!11


Use the search button buddy...
 

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I would rather stab my eyes out than read this bullshit over and over again.
 

CarKid

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I would rather stab my eyes out than read this bullshit over and over again.
EXACTLY MANDI!!!, People are just posting this stuff for attention. I mean, I think people know full well how to get rid of a hard on. Why post about it?

So people, please stop making STUPID POINTLESS threads like this.


end rant~
 

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Stuff like this has been talked about before here a few times in the past month or so and tons of other times on other websites.
 

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Wow, you guys are dicks (excuse the unintentional pun) even by my standards.

I think people know full well how to get rid of a hard on.
If that's the case how come we have topics on the forum asking for advice on the matter?

So people, please stop making STUPID POINTLESS threads like this.
Lol, I browsed your topics, not exactly top quality shit either.


Stuff like this has been talked about before here a few times in the past month or so and tons of other times on other websites.
Every topic on diapers and infantilism is pretty much a continuous rehash. I could accuse 99.9% other topics of being duplicates or ''talked about'' alot. Suck it up.
 

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On a related note, yeah I never understood how people can diaper with their junk pointing down. Its extremely uncomfortable.
 

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On a related note, yeah I never understood how people can diaper with their junk pointing down. Its extremely uncomfortable.
It is actually the "proper" way of doing it... ask anyone who has ever diapered an infant male.

You get used to it after a bit... then it don't bother anymore.
 
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All I can say is, Felstorm's post has been much more informative than a lot of the rubbish that has been posted on this site lately. Sure, it's a repeated thread, but at least it's more than just a few lines of scrappy text, or an unprovoked insult.

People here really need to cool their heads. Don't think yourselves nor this community to be high and mighty, that type of attitude is just disrespectful, unwelcoming and arrogant. Remember, the higher you are, the harder you fall.
 

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Well I don't care if people have talked about it before. I found this post a really helpful read. I have had very little experience of tape up diapers because of my location, and well try to remember this advice when I get round to using one. And, to be honest, most of the stuff in this hasn't been said before - for one thing it is an advice thread, not one asking for help. I don't see what the problem is.
 

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Good advice, though it is a bit of a repeat thread. More informative than others though, so well done. However:

You can't void your bladder with an erection anyway, it's physically impossible.
Its not impossible to pee when you have an erection... it takes more time, but its possible... I have done it.
 

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Wow, you guys are dicks (excuse the unintentional pun) even by my standards.~Shodai

I'm sorry, I didn't know you liked reading this stuff.~John

If that's the case how come we have topics on the forum asking for advice on the matter?~Shodai

Because people want attention and we give it to them by answering. People know full well what to do if they want to lose "it".~John

Lol, I browsed your topics, not exactly top quality shit either.
~Shodai

Why would you talk only him and I down? I didn't see you say anything about Mandi's post? NO offense Mandi.~John

Every topic on diapers and infantilism is pretty much a continuous rehash. I could accuse 99.9% other topics of being duplicates or ''talked about'' alot. Suck it up.~Shodai

Yes I normally don't have a problem with reposts. But, when people keep posting "I'm getting a boner when I wear diapers, what do I do about it" it irritates me. I mean, I'm not into reading stuff like that, but if you are, go for it Shodai.]~Johnathon[/QUOTE


Johnathon
 

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I'm sorry, I didn't know you liked reading this stuff
I like reading all member submitted topics, looks like you're in the wrong ****ing place if you don't.


My reaction after I've finished differs.

People know full well what to do if they want to lose "it"
Maybe members want to look for alternative methods rather than jacking off as it can in some cases have a side-effect which turns people off diapers completely temporarily. It has jack all to do with attention, you just made a predetermined judgement without any evidence to back it up.

Why would you talk only him and I down? I didn't see you say anything about Mandi's post? NO offense Mandi.~John
I included everyone who was a dick in my dick comment, I just generalized when I used the term 'guys', one of my habits, besides, Mandi has boobs you don't, at least, I'd hope not.

...Keep posting "I'm getting a boner when I wear diapers, what do I do about it?"
This clearly isn't a "I'm getting a boner topic, what can I do about it?" topic so why the unprovoked go at the topic creator? You ****ed up, you thought you could look clever pwning teh no0bs and failed.

it irritates me
Take that irritation elsewhere rather than posting nonsense insults, you're only making yourself look bad.

... And hey, now that you mention it, if you don't like reading those kinds of topics why not take your own advice and don't? It'll save you all that frustration.
 
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I for one have never had any problems with hard ons while diapered... I'm not in it for any sexual experience, and even if I did I have (and thought most people did) the mental fortitude to control myself. As far as tucking it down is concerned, it's not that bad you have some room, As someone who has crossdressed and tucked myself under and back using tape, trust me it's nothing.
 
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Stuff like this has been talked about before here a few times in the past month or so and tons of other times on other websites.
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I second that!

As someone who has crossdressed and tucked myself under and back using tape, trust me it's nothing.
Not to be an ass, but I REALLY did not want to know that!
 
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Not to be an ass, but I REALLY did not want to know that!
:laugh: what I didn't even go into details..... it's just what crossdressers do to hide it......
 

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:laugh: what I didn't even go into details..... it's just what crossdressers do to hide it......
Ouch *cringes* :(

On the topic at hand:
Let me summarize the only true answers to all the questions a DL can ever ask:
Diapers => you've been in them already for several years, so you should know what they look like
Which diaper fits me? => One that wraps around your ass and doesn't fly off into space when you breathe in!
Diapering => There are instructions on the package. Try reading!
Where to get diapers => Local stores. Look at the damn yellow pages!
Erections => Porn! This is the internet - it's for porn! Go download some and do what everyone else does (just clean up afterwards!)
Disposal => Trash can. D'uh!
Hiding => Put them in a safe place. If you want to find one in your house...can't help you there - I have never been to your house!
Telling others => Don't bother!

There, now that we have all the answers, we can close the forum. See ya *waves*

Peachy
 
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