I was having a talk on the phone with a kiddo earlier today about her purging this lifestyle and becoming "normal". I explained to her that "normal" is the perception of a person with a closet full of skeletons. After a brief thought she started to point out all of the times in life she found out about someones closet full of secrets. It took me back to the one and only time I have ever tried to purge this lifestyle. I was successful in my try because I wasnt an ab ... im a daddy. Anyone else recall the last time they tried to ditch being the person they are?