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I’m having trouble finding my local abdl community. I don’t like using fetlife(I’m not big on social media anyway) so far the only people I found near me(utah) are those that want to charge for everything. anyone have any tips on what to do? I’m tired of feeling like I’m the only one
 
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The two things which come to mind are to cast your net further and to go where the people are. (if you want to meet people and believe them to be on fetlife then you have to decide what is more important; meeting people or avoiding where they meet?)
 
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If you can get to Denver. There is an Ab shop called ABDLr, that have special events on a regular basis. My favorite is the movie matinee. They don't charge for their events. They host other groups that may charge a nominal fee. I also understand not wanting to be involved with to many sites.
I hope this helps you with your search.
 
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If you can get to Denver. There is an Ab shop called ABDLr, that have special events on a regular basis. My favorite is the movie matinee. They don't charge for their events. They host other groups that may charge a nominal fee. I also understand not wanting to be involved with to many sites.
I hope this helps you with your search.
Getting to Denver isn’t easy for me due to my work schedule
 
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Your best bet might be FetLife, honestly. I’m not a big social media person either, but there are tons of groups and other smaller communities on there. You could also try finding similar groups on Facebook.
 
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If that’s your goal fet is probably a necessary evil.
 
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Anemone said:
The two things which come to mind are to cast your net further and to go where the people are. (if you want to meet people and believe them to be on fetlife then you have to decide what is more important; meeting people
mrprotege13 said:
I’m having trouble finding my local abdl community. I don’t like using fetlife(I’m not big on social media anyway) so far the only people I found near me(utah) are those that want to charge for everything. anyone have any tips on what to do? I’m tired of feeling like I’m the only one
well now it’s changed to I can’t make it to their munches do to work
 
Take time off of work in order to do things which are important to you. You should work to live, not live to work.
 
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Str88jacketabdl said:
a necessary evil.

Hello darkness my old friend...

Take time off of work in order to do things which are important to you. You should work to live, not live to work.

Amen.
 
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I got on FetLife a little while back out of curiosity. Looked up all of my local abdl groups and everything was dead or inactive for the last 2 or 3+ years. Just seems like abdl groups in my local area have just stopped using the platform.
 
Tomtomthedl said:
I got on FetLife a little while back out of curiosity. Looked up all of my local abdl groups and everything was dead or inactive for the last 2 or 3+ years. Just seems like abdl groups in my local area have just stopped using the platform.
Any luck going a different route?
 
Tomtomthedl said:
I got on FetLife a little while back out of curiosity. Looked up all of my local abdl groups and everything was dead or inactive for the last 2 or 3+ years. Just seems like abdl groups in my local area have just stopped using the platform.
I had the same problem when I looked on Fetlife and even if they weren’t inactive there were very few.
 
PaddedBat said:
I had the same problem when I looked on Fetlife and even if they weren’t inactive there were very few.
Have you found any other ways? My groups are also kinda inactive
 
mrprotege13 said:
Have you found any other ways? My groups are also kinda inactive
I was actually looking around on this site and was able to find a thread for my star that helped. Also try Facebook and search Abdl plus your state and you might be able to find something. Also search google there could be other sites or something even on Reddit for your state.
 
mrprotege13 said:
Any luck going a different route?
I have not but I have not been going out of my way looking either.
 
PaddedBat said:
I was actually looking around on this site and was able to find a thread for my star that helped. Also try Facebook and search Abdl plus your state and you might be able to find something. Also search google there could be other sites or something even on Reddit for your state.
I’ll see what I can find. I only found one group on Facebook and the last post was like 2 years ago
 
I guess if you do not want to go East to Denver you could go West to Vegas or LA.

ABDLr in Denver posts a calendar of events so you could plan for a little mini vacation
 
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BellasMommy said:
I guess if you do not want to go East to Denver you could go West to Vegas or LA.

ABDLr in Denver posts a calendar of events so you could plan for a little mini vacation
That might be what I have to do. I’ve got the lowers seniority at my job so days off aren’t the easiest things to get
 
mrprotege13 said:
I’m having trouble finding my local abdl community. I don’t like using fetlife(I’m not big on social media anyway) so far the only people I found near me(utah) are those that want to charge for everything. anyone have any tips on what to do? I’m tired of feeling like I’m the only one
where are you from
 
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