tall2826 said:
A few days ago I was wearing some panties under a pair of shorts that I had and it felt like that they belonged on me. When I did eventually take them off and went back to my boxers, I felt like I was wearing the wrong underwear and it felt like something was missing. I have been noticing this whenever I do dress up/cross-dress, it's like I should be in it.
I'm not sure what this feeling is but I do want to spend most of my time in girls clothes. Anybody insights on what this may be?
I experienced the same thing in June last year. Bought a cheap 4-pack of cotton panties just to try and (after the first 2-3 days of being quite excited about them) they "felt so right", exactly. And men's underwear, which until that time was completely normal to me, suddenly "felt so wrong". I bought more pairs and started to wear them 24/7 immediately.
To answer your question, I'm still not entirely sure what it all means. I also like to wear other girls clothes, have had an inner girl side since childhood (often playing as if I was a girl, creating fake long hair and skirts from towels
), but at the same time I'm happy being a man and don't want to switch. It's like I'm kind of both, but I don't feel any need to present as a girl to the outside world.
Wearing panties may not mean much by itself. If you search the internet for "wearing panties as a man" you will find that a lot of men wear them, including men who are not trans or anything, don't even cross-dress (other than the panties), have wives and kids. Of course, there is a small chance that you might be further along the transgender spectrum (which is worth spending some time to learn about, as DLE above pointed out). But it can also mean that you are one of those "normal men who wear panties". Or something in between. Short answer: this feeling can mean anything.
I think the only way to find out more is to not repress your feelings and not be afraid of experimenting. You will find where your boundaries of comfort are, at least for now (it seems to me that these boundaries can shift over time, in either direction). At the same time, there is no need to rush or force things and you don't need to have everything figured out immediately. Just do what is comfortable (and what your living situation and privacy permits). Panties are all about comfort, that's why we like them
Just my view. It has worked fine for me so far. But I'm still a newbie with a lot of questions. If someone told me this time last year that I would wear panties every day, I would have thought the person was weird.
