Resnov1913
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- Incontinent
I been dealing with incontience for a few years. Mostly just dribbles but of late been a lot worse. I have seen a Dr who ran every test possible.
Urge, frequency, leakage including at night. Whenthe nurse catherized me as part as one of the tests she pulled almost 400cc after I went to the bathroom. She even made the comment I may want to consider discussing catheters with the urologist after she completed the test. The urologist (non va) does not seem to be concerned with the fact I am retaining urinenand leaking.
The VA sent me a case of tranquilty atn which my wife kinda laughed about. I go through several pads and still smell like urine when i come home and at a pair of sleep pants during the night wash the sheets frequently.
My wife is against the diapers as they crinkle and she thinks work may discriminate against me for it. And says the sound would bother her at night.
I am tired of wetting my clothes and bedding and have taken to wearing a diaper at night for past two nights and starting to during the day.
How do people cope and how do you tell your spouse you are tired of making a mess and you basically hive up and just want to use the diapers to cope? I have a apt for second opinion however nothing abnormal was found to cause the issues. Honestly
Urge, frequency, leakage including at night. Whenthe nurse catherized me as part as one of the tests she pulled almost 400cc after I went to the bathroom. She even made the comment I may want to consider discussing catheters with the urologist after she completed the test. The urologist (non va) does not seem to be concerned with the fact I am retaining urinenand leaking.
The VA sent me a case of tranquilty atn which my wife kinda laughed about. I go through several pads and still smell like urine when i come home and at a pair of sleep pants during the night wash the sheets frequently.
My wife is against the diapers as they crinkle and she thinks work may discriminate against me for it. And says the sound would bother her at night.
I am tired of wetting my clothes and bedding and have taken to wearing a diaper at night for past two nights and starting to during the day.
How do people cope and how do you tell your spouse you are tired of making a mess and you basically hive up and just want to use the diapers to cope? I have a apt for second opinion however nothing abnormal was found to cause the issues. Honestly