- Diaper Lover
Most people have had a few incontinent episodes in their life. Remember, incontinence is a symptom, not a disease. Temporary functional incontinence can happen from things like certain foods, drink, drugs, disease, injuries, over-exhaustion, etc. I've been urge incontinent my entire life due to an overactive bladder and IBS. I am urge incontinent because I cannot hold it on a 24/7 basis. In the 12+ years we've been together, my wife has pooped her pants a couple of times and wet the bed. However, I wouldn't call her incontinent. It was just a couple of incidents and we did not make a big deal about them. If things like this persist, however, you should see a doctor asap.