DLs who never had feelings as a child/ teen?

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Takkun

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I was wondering how rare (or common I guess) it is for diaper wearers to start wearing/ liking diapers as an adult when they had no thoughts about it before?

I myself never thought about diapers as a child, but now I am beginning to fetishize them greatly, and I'm semi-delving into possibly wearing them??

Until Shin told me about his desire to wear them, I never even known anything like this existed. I had heard of a fetish of people liking to see others in diapers (usually guys watching girls in diapers), and I had even watched some porn with girls in diapers, and it never did anything for me.

I don't consider myself AB, just because what little actions some could possibly consider to be AB is greatly over-shadowed by my other submissive tendencies. Shin and I like pet-play, and when I'm submissive, my name is Puppy, and he is Sir (or sometimes Daddy). I am Collared, and take my role as His pet very seriously. But other than that, not any real baby tendencies.

So, on a semi-related note, would I be a DL infantilist?

So, I just realized this would probably go in the Diaper Talk forum.
Should I have them move it? >_<
 
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Hey there... now it obviously doesn't go for me... but my gf (LuvsGurl) fits the description you give. I'll have her post up tonite when she gets in from work.
 

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I was wondering how rare (or common I guess) it is for diaper wearers to start wearing/ liking diapers as an adult when they had no thoughts about it before?
I guess that most infantilists would have thoughts about diapers while they are younger, but I don't think that becoming an infantilist as an adult without thinking about it before is very rare. I guess people can be introduced just like others can be introduced to other fetishes.
So, I just realized this would probably go in the Diaper Talk forum.
Should I have them move it? >_<
Nah it's fine in this forum. It's nothing to do with diapers, and it is to do with adult infantilists.
 

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Yeay, thanks. I've sorta been wanting to skip right to wearing them out, not sure why.

Shin and I were thinking about wearing them together to go to the movies, but we didn't have time.

I guess that most infantilists would have thoughts about diapers while they are younger, but I don't think that becoming an infantilist as an adult without thinking about it before is very rare. I guess people can be introduced just like others can be introduced to other fetishes.

Nah it's fine in this forum. It's nothing to do with diapers, and it is to do with adult infantilists.
I sort of go back and forth between calling it a fetish, because for so many people it isn't all sexual, or NOT at all, so I try not to offend anyone and call it a fetish.

Same with BDSM in some ways. I know lots of people in the BDSM lifestyle who just call it WIITWD. What it is that we do. I thought it was sorta clever.
 
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Well i Have to say that untill I met Darkfinn I was never interested or thought that I would ever see myself wearing. Though I started to support him when he said he was intersted in diapers. I even started to wear them for him once and a while. THough I found that I liked wearing them. I do not get a sexual earge from them, only a playful new luxury underwear.
I do not think of myself as an AB, though I do realy like to wear. This is great to hear that there are other people out there that are no different then myself. I made a thread much like this a month or so ago, and it seemed like I was the only one out there that had "been turned".
 

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I think most on this site will say they have always, or almost always had the urge. My first desire was when I was about 4 yrs old. It may be a little different for the girls than for the boys, however. It will be interesting to see how this plays out.
 

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Well i Have to say that untill I met Darkfinn I was never interested or thought that I would ever see myself wearing. Though I started to support him when he said he was intersted in diapers. I even started to wear them for him once and a while. THough I found that I liked wearing them. I do not get a sexual earge from them, only a playful new luxury underwear.
I do not think of myself as an AB, though I do realy like to wear. This is great to hear that there are other people out there that are no different then myself. I made a thread much like this a month or so ago, and it seemed like I was the only one out there that had "been turned".
"Turned", like he infiltrated my brain or something. :D

I did notice there seems to be a lot more males than females. I just attributed most of it to the fact that most boys are not nurtured like girls, and were raised to not want to be coddled, etc, wile that would be acceptable for girls.

I also figured stimulation of the male parts would be more prominent than for girls, just because of anatomy. n__n
 

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Well I wore diapers and pull ups during my youth because of bedwetting, so the diaper "urge" was never really an issue, since I was wearing them every night. I definitely had feelings when I finally stopped wetting the bed and had to stop wearing, but I had a busy life so I quickly forgot about them. It wasn't until I had my own place at university, and the stress/depression was really piled on that my diaper desires really sparked again. I was 18 at the time.
 

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I was wondering how rare (or common I guess) it is for diaper wearers to start wearing/ liking diapers as an adult when they had no thoughts about it before?

I myself never thought about diapers as a child, but now I am beginning to fetishize them greatly, and I'm semi-delving into possibly wearing them??

Until Shin told me about his desire to wear them, I never even known anything like this existed. I had heard of a fetish of people liking to see others in diapers (usually guys watching girls in diapers), and I had even watched some porn with girls in diapers, and it never did anything for me.

I don't consider myself AB, just because what little actions some could possibly consider to be AB is greatly over-shadowed by my other submissive tendencies. Shin and I like pet-play, and when I'm submissive, my name is Puppy, and he is Sir (or sometimes Daddy). I am Collared, and take my role as His pet very seriously. But other than that, not any real baby tendencies.

So, on a semi-related note, would I be a DL infantilist?

So, I just realized this would probably go in the Diaper Talk forum.
Should I have them move it? >_<
You don't have to be an infantilist to like diapers. Or even get turned on to them. I certainly didn't have a bondage or sadism fetish when I was a kid, but got turned on to it through a lover as an adult.

I've never entertained childish tendencies, or wanting to behave like a baby. Period. I like to wear them myself, both for fetishistic and utilitarian reasons.

Yours is a healthy curiosity. There is no harm in indulging, even if just to try it out.
 

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I'm not an adult, but it seems like everyone was attracted to diapers even as children, and I wasn't until I found out about infantilism.
 

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I wasn't into diapers as a kid, but found out I liked them later on in life, I never ever tought about diapers but I did enjoy wetting, and after I got the interenet I ran across diapers and tried them, and liked them.

I have always liked footed sleepers, and that is how I stumbled upon diapers looking for a source of sleepers, and they just seem to go together for me.

I don't consider myself as an AB, just a DL who likes to wet, but wears a sleeper to bed.
 

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Where is this at? How did you come about seeing it?
Just about anywhere that has porn videos.

@ everyone: Thank you for the responses. I'm not sure why I am so scared to try it out. I sort of felt like I was taking something away from Shin, though. I sorta experiemnted with the AB part last night, but not the diapers yet.

I have worn them maybe twice before, but without any real feelings.
 
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