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messydiaper

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To what degree is your DL nature sexual?

I see my DL nature as a sexual kink, and diapers and the thought of wearing/using diapers excites me sexually, but I am not dependent on diapers as a requirement for engaging in activities with my wife.

For the most part, diapers provide an underlying kinky feeling when I wear them, and I fantasize about a mature woman changing me (like my wife), I wear when I want to around my wife, and she occasionally diapers me before bed. But our intimate relations don't involve an actual diaper, but my wife is aware that I will occasionally satisfy myself while wearing a diaper and using a Magic Wand that is in our dresser drawer. Otherwise our relations are pretty vanilla.

I don't hear a lot of DL specific conversations and thought it might be fun to see how other DL's view this?
 
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Pretty much the same as above.

I’m fortunate to have a partner who joins in, as caretaker, putting me in nappies/plastic pants and taking care of the adult ‘reactions’ surrounding the above.

Although I do think females in padding look sexy, my GF has worn once for me, and though it was exciting at the time, neither of us yearn to repeat it.

We also have lots of adult times together which do not involve any DL side
 
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I just like how they feel. Graphics on them is about as AB as I can get, but I don’t think there’s a lot of sexual stuff involved, because I hold sex to be overrated.
 
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I think it depends on several factors. Diapers were once way more erotic and a turn on. Now they are far more comforting and relaxing. Heard it on s podcast described as going from Viagra to Prozac.
 
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I have a lot of little / AB thoughts, but I'd say I have a lot of plain DL in me too!

I would say I primarily get off of the embarrassment / implications of ineptitude that come from wearing. I do have a lot of weird material fetishes though, which maybe contributes! The fluff inside diapers definitely feels very nice to wear.
 
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messydiaper said:
To what degree is your DL nature sexual?

I see my DL nature as a sexual kink, and diapers and the thought of wearing/using diapers excites me sexually, but I am not dependent on diapers as a requirement for engaging in activities with my wife.

For the most part, diapers provide an underlying kinky feeling when I wear them, and I fantasize about a mature woman changing me (like my wife), I wear when I want to around my wife, and she occasionally diapers me before bed. But our intimate relations don't involve an actual diaper, but my wife is aware that I will occasionally satisfy myself while wearing a diaper and using a Magic Wand that is in our dresser drawer. Otherwise our relations are pretty vanilla.

I don't hear a lot of DL specific conversations and thought it might be fun to see how other DL's view this?
NONE! I'm incontinent
 
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ShortFirefly said:
I think it depends on several factors. Diapers were once way more erotic and a turn on. Now they are far more comforting and relaxing. Heard it on s podcast described as going from Viagra to Prozac.
This is my story as well. Used to be a huge turn on now almost none but if not in some form of diaper more anxious.
 
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Diapers often turn me on but sometimes I just enjoy them without being excited. Like atm I am wearing but I’m just wearing to wear
 
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Diapers have been a sexual turn on for me since I was 13 and started to masturbate in my diapers, especially in the morning when they were wet. As an adult, diapers were often, but not always, involved with my sexual activities. I liked to play with myself whenever I pinned diapers on for the night or weekend. Liked go to movies wearing diapers and play with myself. Sometime, not very often, went on dates with girls, wore diapers and had sexual relations after taking my diapers off. But now that I'm with my wife who knows and supports my diaper wearing, most of our sexual activities occur either when she changes me or when we are in the mood and I have diapers on when we start to make love. Of course they come off eventually.
 
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My gf and I are both incontinent and wear diapers so we will change eachother sometimes. I have changed her quite a few times when she has been drinking to avoid any wet beds. . Lol. .
 
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Diapers are definitely sexual for. I think even as a child, they had some sort of pre-pubescent sexual allure.
 
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Diapers have always been sexual for me. My first orgasm was in a diaper. Diapers are 90% involved during sex with my wife. She always diapers me before we have sex because it makes the experience all the more intense for both of us.
There has never been an issue with me wearing a diaper during sex.
 
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As being a medical DL, it is non-sexual for me, just medical need only.
 
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When I first wore diapers in my early teens, I did not know why. They just felt good.

As I got older, it became clearly sexual for me. I even had a girlfriend that would indulge in diapers and adult activities with me.

Nowadays diapers provided me comfort and protection from incontinence. There are no sexual feelings related to wearing diapers now.
 
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My situation is just like yours, except my wife does not get involved with diapers.
 
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If i did have a daddy dom then it would vary on being sexual
 
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Not so much sexual for myself. Every once in great awhile it has when the rubbing me at that right area !
 
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Not the diaper by itself- no. i actually have a pee/wetting kink side of me and I have for years. But I’m also incontinent. wearing or going in a diaper on it’s own isn’t a turn on and often feels not fun, embarrassing and shameful even after many years wearing a diaper, but I’m still accepting this part of my life. If I’m already worked up down there...i have and can get turned on in my diaper- of course- even if I just went in it :) But if I were to be able to use my diaper around an intimate parter and we both use them i could see a certain closeness that I think could feed unfulfilled intimacy which I think is the genesis of my potty kink I had in the first place. I don’t know....😳

jess
 
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ShortFirefly said:
I think it depends on several factors. Diapers were once way more erotic and a turn on. Now they are far more comforting and relaxing. Heard it on s podcast described as going from Viagra to Prozac.
Well said
 
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I like to wear diapers for comfort, but they do provide sexual arousal. The reason I love plastic backed diapers is because they trigger so many senses; the soft fluffiness touching my skin, the smooth plastic when I touch it with my hand, the sound of a crinkly plastic diaper, and the visual of wearing a plastic diaper. I really can't help but get aroused by such sensory stimulation.
 
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