Well in my experience (not much), I have ordered a sample pack of bambinos and they were extremely discreet, I think the only thing they said was the BH group on the return address, and the dry 24/7's say drycare on the return address but that is it.
Another vote here for XP Medical, plain brown boxes, and a discreet return address label, nobody would know what was in the box just by looking at it, I've ordered from them several times and always had a good experience.
Gary Evans, the owner of XP, is both AB and TB aware and supportive. I can confidently say that there is no other source in the US with a better combo of good prices, fantastic customer service, and discretion in packaging. Big :thumbsup: to them.
Care Givers Partnership has my Attends drop-shipped from the Attends factory in North Carolina. The cartons are discreet. I have always had excellent service from Care Givers Partnership, but I have never discussed ABDL with them.
Having ordered diapers, he was plagued by follow-up mailings of brochures and sale coupons. HDIS is especially bad about this.
Keep it in mind when you order. If such mailings would embarrass you or compromise your secrecy, make it clear that you do not want further contact. Some places have an option to note that in their check-out procedure. :educate:
To reiterate on everyone else in this thread, XP Medical is the only place that I've ordered diapers from but they came in a plain USPS box with nothing on the label save for the letters XP. They also have sample packs (which is what I ordered) on the site if you just want to try out a few different brands. They shipped less than a full day after I ordered them and arrived only in a few days. So, all in all a rather pleasant experience.
The first time, my diapers were shipped from XP medical... very discrete... plain brown box...
I ordered again and they just arrived in a Tena box... stamped loud and clear on the outside as to what they were.... The return address this time did NOT say XPMedical... not sure where they came from ... just a cryptic address...
The only saving grace was the box 'looked' like it might have been reused...
My only 'permissable' shipping address is my office!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
I have orderd from HDIS and I asked them not to send in a box that had product info on it. The diapers came and where in the origanal box but it was turned in side out and the only thing on the box was the adress that said HDIS. So I was totaly satisfied with them.