diapers around friends/family

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englandfan13

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does anyone like to wear diapers around their friends or family, whether they know about you wearing diapers or not, and try to make it really noticeable? either by having the diaper sticking out over the top of your pants, or wearing loud, crinkly diapers so they think you're wearing one? I personally have done that, but very rarely and only around my mom and my best friend who both know.
 

Pojo

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No...Even though my mom knows, it's not something I wanted her to know, so why would I flaunt it?
 

diapernh

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honestly, i would rather the rest of my family not know. my mom knows, as do a few friends, that is enough
 

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I don't try to advertise the fact that I may be diapered to any of my family members. I might be a more relaxed about it here at my dad's house but I am surely not going to walk by him in just a short T-shirt and diaper. <_>


Anyways don't you think exposing your diapers to them may be one of the root causes for them wanting you to stop wearing?
Really they are fine with you wearing diapers, but do you have to expose your diapers towards them? Just show them equal respect by keeping it as private as you can.
 

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i've been known to occasionally wear around my mom, but i'm always super careful to keep it concealed. i don't much like wearing around people -- it makes me nervous and paranoid -- but sometimes there are situations where it makes the most sense to leave it on while she's around. as far as i know, she's never noticed.
 
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I do wear around my friends, the only time I don't wear is around my family. I do not flaunt it, although if the diapers are loud, they are loud.
 

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I can understand how enjoyment can come from wearing in front of random members of the public and trying to make it noticeable. In fact, while I'd never want to make people feel uncomfortable, I'm definitely attracted to the idea of flaunting diapers in public.

But in front of my friends and family? That's just weird. I'd never want to involve them in something like that, and I'd get no pleasure from doing so anyway.
 
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No chance in Hell that I would wear around my family.

(I know I'm about to conflate family wearing with public wearing, but they're somewhat similar in my mind.)

I can't quite put words to my feelings about "public" exposure, but I'll try.

What I want out of wearing in public (other than the delicious convenience) is that some other guy who is also into diapers will notice what I'm doing. And I mean only someone who is into it.

The result is that I'm never obvious in public.

This creates a problem. How do I keep my diaper hidden from those not aroused by it, yet somehow signal the persons who are? And just as difficult, how do I approach another guy on the street who I think might be wearing?

I've never solved this. It speaks to the need for a recognizable signal, like the old gay hankie code, but apparently such a thing has never taken off among diaper wearers.
 

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And just as difficult, how do I approach another guy on the street who I think might be wearing?
You simply don't, you don't know if they need diapers or if they are AB/DL. Anyways there's tons of AB/DL's online to talk to and meet in public.

If there was a public "sign" for this I wouldn't wear it or do it since I don't want some 50 year old guy who's secretly gay hiding it from his wife saying "So you like Diapees huh!?"

(I actually did just describe one of the idiots from my town. At least from what his profile said online. It was some site like ABY or some other awful site like that.)
 
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soren456

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You simply don't, you don't know if they need diapers or if they are AB/DL. . . .
That's right. But what I might do is make my diaper more nearly obvious, tug a bit of it up over the waist of my jeans and get in front of him or something.

Put the ball in his court, so to speak.

Or, getting up real bravery, say "I use Attends. What do you find best?"

That could address multiple reasons for his wearing, and would be nonsense otherwise.

Of course, this is all just fantasy . . . .
 

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I would never and have never worn around my family or friends. For one thing, none of them no I wear so I don't want them to find out like that. Another thing is that I would just feel really nervous.
 
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Or, getting up real bravery, say "I use Attends. What do you find best?"

That could address multiple reasons for his wearing, and would be nonsense otherwise.

Of course, this is all just fantasy . . . .
*giggles*

That would be brilliantly funny, I think, actually. Then again, maybe not so wise...

As far as my opinion goes on this matter, my parents know about my diaper...and I would be insane to flaunt it. For one thing, I respect my parents enough to not force it into their lives. Everything happens behind closed* doors.

Secondly, the only diaper I have in my possession is cloth...nothing short of extremely baggy pants would cover it. Even then, my parents would be able to recognize it a mile away. Of course, that is a hyperbole, but I do walk funny when I wear diapers. I can't help it.

And as far as friends go...I'd rather not wear diapers in front of them. Even if I managed to get my hands on concealable diapers, it would not do; it's just not morally responsible, for me.
 

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I would never ware around my family or friends. Just like I would hope they don't flaunt their under garments at me I don't flaunt mine at them. I have worn in public but I would go places where no one would know me and I would keep it as under cover as possible. I have run in to people I know in public while wearing but I was still scared of them finding out.
 

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My parents have seen me wearing diapers. Also several of my best friends have seen me too. As for the public I would never let strangers see me in my diaper or underwear for that matter too.
 

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Never. There isn't really anything that I could gain from this. But in public...
 

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Nope, too risky for my liking. I get uptight about that type of thing, and I really like to be relaxed when I'm wearing diapers, or else it's not that enjoyable. Plus, I really don't want to make my family or friends uncomfortable. I can certainly see the appeal in wearing in these scenarios, because the risk can be enjoyable, but the potential consequences in my case are not worth the enjoyment.
 

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I wear diapers around my family because I live with them, but I try to be as stealthy as possible. The same applies when I'm out diapered with my friends: I dress accordingly to my diapered status so that they can't tell unless they pat my butt (which is quite unlikely to happen).

Generally speaking, I don't like to show off to people who wouldn't understand, or would think of it as a weird thing. Then, being around with someone who's into diapers too would make things quite different... and more "interesting" :tongueout:
 

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My parents know I wear and hate it, so sometimes I wear around them in spite, lol. Not often though, and they never realize it. I've got a few pairs of super-baggy pants.
 

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hell, I would wear 24/7 if my parents where accepting of it but if I had any diapers I would discreetly wear around people
 
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