thediaperedhusband
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Hi all,
Just this weekend, I had a very long talk with my wife of five years. She’s always known about my desire to wear diapers, but this was the first time I had expressed a desire to wear often and openly in the house. I mentioned that diapers are a huge source of comfort for me and that it would be life changing to be able to be open about them in the house if she could handle it. She was kind and tolerant enough to give me the thumbs up to wear regularly whenever I feel like it. I took all of my diapers out of hiding and placed them on the bathroom closet shelves. I feel free and like I’m not in hiding anymore.
I spent the weekend and a few weeknights so far diapered. It’s a far cry from 24/7 and I absolutely want this to become a regular thing. My wife has been talking to me normally during this, and I’m talking to her about it as much as I can, but given she has no interest or understanding of this stuff, I’m terrified that she’s freaking out under the surface. It’s been an absolute sea change for me in the past week and I think my mood reflects it. I’m just concerned about her and her continuing acceptance of her husband in diapers. The last things I want are for her to resent me or for me to end up back in hiding.
So, for those of you who wear openly, how did you bridge the gap with your spouse? What should I do here? Continue to wear regularly and normalize things or do I wear sparingly? Thank you so much for your thoughts!
Just this weekend, I had a very long talk with my wife of five years. She’s always known about my desire to wear diapers, but this was the first time I had expressed a desire to wear often and openly in the house. I mentioned that diapers are a huge source of comfort for me and that it would be life changing to be able to be open about them in the house if she could handle it. She was kind and tolerant enough to give me the thumbs up to wear regularly whenever I feel like it. I took all of my diapers out of hiding and placed them on the bathroom closet shelves. I feel free and like I’m not in hiding anymore.
I spent the weekend and a few weeknights so far diapered. It’s a far cry from 24/7 and I absolutely want this to become a regular thing. My wife has been talking to me normally during this, and I’m talking to her about it as much as I can, but given she has no interest or understanding of this stuff, I’m terrified that she’s freaking out under the surface. It’s been an absolute sea change for me in the past week and I think my mood reflects it. I’m just concerned about her and her continuing acceptance of her husband in diapers. The last things I want are for her to resent me or for me to end up back in hiding.
So, for those of you who wear openly, how did you bridge the gap with your spouse? What should I do here? Continue to wear regularly and normalize things or do I wear sparingly? Thank you so much for your thoughts!