Diaper wearers vs diaper users.

[Darkfinn]

Alrighty folks... time for a new question from the depths of my crazy brain.

I've noticed a few people mentioning that they wear diapers but don't actually use them... I.E. wet/mess them.

To those that prefer to keep diapers dry... why?

Did I miss out on something? I thought the whole point of a diaper was that you could "go" in it and not have to worry.

Am I the only one here who sees a diaper as a utilitarian object... to be used for convienience and not only for fun?

Opinions from the masses please!

 

[care_a_lot]

Actually I don't use it for either reason. I use diapers because they make me feel like a child. When my mommy puts me into diapers I feel the need to regress to a very young child and will go and play with my pink bunny rabbit and with my toy cars and just have a good time crawling around the floor in my diaper. When I need to go to the toilet though I go and say to mommy "Mommy I need go potty" and she takes me herself. Its the feeling of being completely childlike and looking like a child that brings an innocence out of me that is often hidden. I feel safe and secure inside of my diaper so even though I don't wet it or mess it and never have I feel happy when inside it because it makes me feel like a little girl. To tell the trugh I've never tried wetting or messing my diaper because I seem to not be able to. I wind up getting to the point where I could just about burst and then I ask mommy to take me to go potty. I also worry that if I did use the diapers like that that maybe my body would get used to it and I couldn't go around in public looking after my clients (all aged) smelling terrible or like a little baby girl because they would notice in a second and ask all kinds of questions as old people like grandma's grandpa's and my clients tend to do.

 

[EmmEmmThree]

If I am wearing diapers, I force myself to do something in them before taking them off... usually #1

 

[care_a_lot]

I don't seem to be able to force myself though I have tried believe you me but I don't seem to be able to. Maybe its the nervousness of losing control of my bladder completely? I seem to have a pretty weak one as it is and it just worries me that I could lose control.

 

[Darkfinn]

I don't seem to be able to force myself though I have tried believe you me but I don't seem to be able to. Maybe its the nervousness of losing control of my bladder completely? I seem to have a pretty weak one as it is and it just worries me that I could lose control.

As has been posted elsewhere... going in a diaper won't cause you to lose control... but doing it for the first time is the hardest. A lot of fears are unfounded... and noone here is going to push you into something you are uncomfortable with. But I think if you tried it... you'd find it's not so bad.

As far as rules for myself goes... once the diaper is on... it dosen't come off till its full.

 

[care_a_lot]

That's a pretty logical way to think but for now I think I'll stick to asking mommy to take me potty. Mommy watches to make sure that I go correctly and she cleans me up properly afterwards just like she helps me to do my teeth properly when she doesn't think that I'm getting to the gums. Why do I have to get to them anyway? Oh well mommy thinks its good for me. Whatever she thinks is best is what happens. She has said in the past maybe one day she'd make me do number 1 in my diaper but that day hasn't come yet.

 

[EmeraldsAndLime]

Put simply, to some people the fetish is to do with the diaper, not using it. How it feels, how it looks, smells, touch, etc... It's all to do with how the diaper invigorates that person's senses. Yes, the "whole point to a diaper" is to use it, but that sensation may not be why the person is attracted to them at all.

To be honest, I think using a diaper is treading more into AB territory. A person can be a diaper lover, but not an AB.

 

[Pojo]

I always use mine. I think that whole point of wearing them is to use them, and I like to use them.

 

[Monkey]

Normally I'd use the nappy I'm wearing not out of necessity or convenience just because it's an aspect of the fetish I enjoy. If I needed the benefit of not having to wander to the nearest restroom I'd wear them much regularly but oddly enough I have a fairly blissful relationship with my toilet so long as I text whereabouts I am four times a day.

I can understand why someone wouldn't feel the need to use nappies if they have no qualms using the little persons room or just don't like the idea of getting close and personal with what comes out of their body.

 

[Darkfinn]

oddly enough I have a fairly blissful relationship with my toilet.

Good one... hehehe.

Probably TMI for some here... but my potty & I have a decent understanding when it comes to #2... but 90% of the time #1 ends up in my diaper or in my pants.

 

[Charlie]

I enjoy just wearing the diaper, and I also enjoy using the diaper. I don't wear diapers and not use them, simply because I don't have many anyway, so I might as well get two uses from them!

It's nothing to do with not having to worry, it's just something that's enjoyable.

 

[Target]

I always use the diaper I wear because I like when I wet it and because I don't have much time to do that, so I don't lost the occasion

 

[care_a_lot]

I like using the potty. Mommy likes looking after her little girl. So I dont' know that I can say that I'm not an AB because I don't use a diaper. I think that there is more to being an AB and the AB lifestyle than just peeing and pooing in your diaper. There's the playful element. If your not always a baby and your often 3 or 4 years old a lot of kids by that stage know how to go to the potty and their mommies look after them like my mommy does with me.

 

[Eclipse]

I myself use diapers for pee but thats it, I have done the other and I am not too interested in it. The mess is a hassle, if I had someone else to change me, then who knows maybe I would change my mind.
To car a lot, you were saying you do not know why you were able to go pee in it, and you would try to the point you are bursting, well its all mental block. All our lives we have been trained to use the potty and not go with any article of clothing on at all costs! So when you try to pee in your pants or underwear or even diaper for the first time your brain is going to be like NOOO STOP! :laughing:
So if you ever want to over come this mental block care a lot, you just have to practice and it will take time, just like potty training a kid takes time. Myex gf had a problem with this when she first started using diapers. She would try until her bladder was aching in pain, so then I made her sit on the potty with her diaper on and she went with in a minute or two. You see because basically I tricked her mind, her mind knew she was in the bathroom and sitting on the potty so it felt comfortable enough to tell those muscles to relax down there. Then after she could do that, her fears of what it was going to be like dissapeared and she was able to do it sitting and standing after she did it a few times on the potty. So if you ever decide to try it again hopefully that will clear some things up for you.
Also no, your bladder will not become untrained, only way that could happen is you would have to be diapered 24/7 and go everytime at the slightest urge, which would still take several months at least to untrain your bladder.

 

[Takashi]

I love it with my bf and I. He is older then me but he always acts like a toddler and is alot shorter then me (he's 5'2 i'm 6'0). So he is diapered most of the time without a care in the world cus he's daddy (me) is there to play and change him. Then he will have moments were he will want to grow up alittle and be a big boy and wear pull ups, which ofcourse he will have an accident and get sad and I will tell him "It's ok little guy your only 3 and your still learning." In which he will smile and I will ask him if he wants a change. He's so cute

 

[Sawaa]

The way I figure it, if I end up taking off a diaper and it's still clean? It's a waste.
Generally - and I've said this numerous times before - if I diaper up, it's with the eventual intent of messing ~<3

 

[Pramrider]

The way I figure it, if I end up taking off a diaper and it's still clean? It's a waste.

Same sentiment here. Of the few diapers I've had, I always wet in them prior to taking them off. Just seemed like such a waste to toss them still clean.

~Pramrider

 

[James]

I use them because it makes me feel kinda i gues helpless like a little kid it gives me that "feeling" of actually being a tb.

 

[care_a_lot]

Its funny how come after reading quite a few of these posts it makes more sense as to why one would want to pee or mess in their diapers. Yet if I need to go I still run to the potty with mommy not far behind me. I guess I'm lucky in that I get to do what feels right for me. Maybe that'll change, maybe mommy will change that for me. Who knows.

 

[Neonite]

I wet because I like the feeling, and it kinda feels like a waste to take off a diaper without a "reason." >.>;

Not to mention that the only diapers I've ever had were Goodnites, and they were kinda ruined after a while of wearing them anyway if you took them off repeatedly. D: