When I wear cloth, I don't usually use them, as I do not own a quality pair of plastic pants (I sewed some together, but they are far from anything you can get online), when I wear disposable, however, it's a different story.
Both, definitely. But it is all about wetting for me. When my diaper is dry the excitement comes from knowing that I will pee in them. And when they are wet the excitement comes from that. (And from peeing in itself, which is the most important part for me.)
I started out as a diaper wearer. Of course as time went on at some point I had to wet to find out what it felt like.... Liked the wetting. Didn't like wet diapers or the washing of wet diapers and plastic pants. What a bunch of work! So I have started using disposables to make things simpler on clean up. And now I am incontinent. Still don't care for sitting in a wet diaper. In fact I have to change now...
I'm a diaper user. Though when I first started out I was both, but now if I wear a diaper and don't use it I feel guilty for wasting a perfectly good diaper. Especially if its a premium diaper, such as a Molicare.