Diaper stash found by my dad

[swan]

I have been wearing for 2 years now and I havn't been really wearing in a while. and I have never been caught before. But I keep my stash of Abri's in a brown box, and then I put waaay deep in the crawl space of my house.

now NORMALLY the crawlspace doesn't have anyone in there for a year at a time, but when my dad fixed some plumbing issues like 6 months ago he left a few tools under there. So the other day we hit a sprinkler line and he needs those tools to fix it.

So he goes under the house and finds my box of diapers.... I think, today I asked if he needed me to go get those tools from under the house and he said "I already got them, and I found some thing else, do you know what I found?"

there isnt anything else down there and he said it so that I know he found them.
I kinda just shrugged off his question and went on. but he really didn't seem angry or mad or anything, he was kinda teasing me more than anything.

So should I just go on like nothing happened? Or should I tell him?

And better yet what should I tell him If he was to bring it up? I am kinda scared to know what he is going to say in the future.

Does any one know of a website that I could give to him that would explain that I am a DL and not really weird or anything.

 

[Deleted member 989]

He's probably not going to bring it up agian. He's probably going to file this under 'Awkward and shameful things I know about my son that I will never talk to him about'. Go with it, but try not to get caught agian.

 

[swan]

I Agree on that, but like at the same time He was teasing me about the fact that he had found them, instead of just not saying anything. so i dont know what he will do.

 

[Martin]

Why would he link those to you? Only if you have a really good reason for him to do that should you even start to consider talking to him. But even then I don't think you should. Just keep quiet and if h comes to you about it you might want to tell him but only then.

 

[BabyKat]

He's probably not going to bring it up agian. He's probably going to file this under 'Awkward and shameful things I know about my son that I will never talk to him about'. Go with it, but try not to get caught agian.

Well that's kind of harsh...And see, society has gotten to even you - diapers are just taboo in our society...there's really nothing "shameful" about them...Awkward yes.

A lot of people, even here have a hard time with that one. If you believe what others tell you/make you believe, how can we ever bring it around to anyone else? Anyway...

I kinda just shrugged off his question and went on. but he really didn't seem angry or mad or anything, he was kinda teasing me more than anything.

So should I just go on like nothing happened? Or should I tell him?

And better yet what should I tell him If he was to bring it up? I am kinda scared to know what he is going to say in the future.

Does any one know of a website that I could give to him that would explain that I am a DL and not really weird or anything.

Either way, it doesn't sound like you have anything to really worry about. If he's just teasing that's not too bad...At least he's not mad.

It really is up to you whether you tell him or not...That's a decision you should make yourself. Don't let your decision be swayed by me or anyone else on here for that matter. And a lot of people, even on here, seem to be quite terrified of telling...From my experience, the sooner you get it over with, the sooner it's a thing in the past...I wear diapers around my family all the time, but we still don't speak about it...But I told them a few years ago, and they're just starting to understand now. Besides, it sounds like he already knows...Maybe it's better you straighten out what he thinks before he hears about something from DPF or like Jerry Springer. Maybe he even thought it was cute and was just poking fun at you. You never know.

You have basically two options. One is you don't tell him and I mean you can really tell them anytime later. There really is no going back once you do. But the other is the fact that if it does work out, it'll be kind of a relief, and you won't have to worry that he doesn't pick up any misconceptions about it. Also this is probably the best time to tell him if any, since it's already a present issue. So good luck, and keep us informed with what you do/any updates.

EDIT: By the way, you're on this site for a reason ...what better one is there...Maybe you can dig up an article or two - check the wiki.

 

[wetatnight]

a site that helps explain ab/dl is dailydiapers.com
also the diapersuperstore.com

 

[BluTack]

a site that helps explain ab/dl is dailydiapers.com
also the diapersuperstore.com

Oh I know another site that can explain too... It's ADISC. A really awesome site.

 

[BabyKat]

Oh I know another site that can explain too... It's ADISC. A really awesome site.

:laugh: Exactly what I just said...just better. LOL.

 

[Pojo]

I think it would just be best not to bring it up...He may bring it up again sometime soon (depending when this actually happened), but yeah...But go with the flow of it

 

[Maverick]

I have been wearing for 2 years now and I havn't been really wearing in a while. and I have never been caught before. But I keep my stash of Abri's in a brown box, and then I put waaay deep in the crawl space of my house.

now NORMALLY the crawlspace doesn't have anyone in there for a year at a time, but when my dad fixed some plumbing issues like 6 months ago he left a few tools under there. So the other day we hit a sprinkler line and he needs those tools to fix it.

So he goes under the house and finds my box of diapers.... I think, today I asked if he needed me to go get those tools from under the house and he said "I already got them, and I found some thing else, do you know what I found?"

there isnt anything else down there and he said it so that I know he found them.
I kinda just shrugged off his question and went on. but he really didn't seem angry or mad or anything, he was kinda teasing me more than anything.

So should I just go on like nothing happened? Or should I tell him?

And better yet what should I tell him If he was to bring it up? I am kinda scared to know what he is going to say in the future.

Does any one know of a website that I could give to him that would explain that I am a DL and not really weird or anything.

I personally would let it go and act like nothing happened. If he doesn't bring it up, you shouldn't either.

If he does bring it up, well, seeing as he found your entire stash, I'd just tell him the whole truth.

Don't give him a website. Sit down and have a mature conversation with him. Tell him your feelings and be honest with him. If you explain to him that diapers aren't hurting anyone, and they're used as a stress reliever, I'm sure your father will understand.

 

[Gingy]

forget about it! If he goes in there almost never, he must think you go in almost never. Just don't bring it up again, and I would suggest you find a new hiding spot.

 

[Customizer]

Awwwww. This is the one chance your dad has of having his little, baby boy back. ^_____________^

Your dad loves you, you know. He could have yelled at you or raised hell, but he didn't.

If your relationship with him is on good grounds and he is an open person, go on and tell him. Keeping a secret too long only drives you crazy.

You can do it, kiddo. I believe in you.

 

[andysetra]

Personally, I would let it be. He doesn't sounds like he wants to talk about it (maybe he feels uncomfortable, or maybe he thinks you're embarrassed). I would just shrug it off and continue on.

As for the need to tell people, in order to 'not keep secrets', there is always secrets between people. Not necessarily huge or dangerous ones, but would it really help any if you told him? Is it really hurting your relationship that he doesn't know? No. Especially if it's a sexual thing for you, he really doesn't need to (and probably doesn't want to) know.

 

[Grutzvalt]

Good god. Not a difficult situation if he didn't come after you with an ax, shouting "I'M GUNNA KILL YOU, YOU FREAK OF A SON!"

EMAIL DAMN YOU!!!! You send an email, that way you don't like stutter and forget what you say, thus making it come off as something bad. Email Email Email!

 

[Point]

Don't Panic!

There's a good chance he was just amused to find them. Why would he think they were yours?

Tread lightly for awhile, but don't freak out. You're imagining that he's teasing you.

 

[Silikon]

I can't stress how strongly I feel about not telling about stuff like this unless you're caught in a situation where you HAVE to tell (and so far, you don't).

It would be like if your dad were to come out and say "son, I can't keep secrets from you so here's a list of my fetishes and other secrets you might not know about me, take care!"

Would ANYONE want to hear stuff like that from their parents, even their friends? I can understand a couple, but otherwise it's really dumb to tell for the need of "sharing secrets" and causes unnecessary awkward feelings for everyone involved.

 

[Eclipse]

Usually I am pro telling in most discovery situations, but this is probably not one of them. Your father did not seemed too pressed over the issue so I would leave at that.

Oh yeah, it would be a good idea to move your hiding spot.

 

[h3g3l]

Well that's kind of harsh...And see, society has gotten to even you - diapers are just taboo in our society...there's really nothing "shameful" about them...Awkward yes.

I suspect this is because of our (Western) society's penchant to make connections to sexuality where there is none to be found.

Like diapers. While there's nothing outwardly sexually charged about diapers, it still is something that comes into contact with our genitals. So, it is sexualized. And in the 'States we have a completely backward, puritanical view of eros and cannot differentiate between obvious distinctions - like that of love and sex, or eroticism and pornography.

 

[Pojo]

I suspect this is because of our (Western) society's penchant to make connections to sexuality where there is none to be found.

Like diapers. While there's nothing outwardly sexually charged about diapers, it still is something that comes into contact with our genitals. So, it is sexualized. And in the 'States we have a completely backward, puritanical view of eros and cannot differentiate between obvious distinctions - like that of love and sex, or eroticism and pornography.

Air hits genitals...Is air sexual now? Same with water...

 

[h3g3l]

Air hits genitals...Is air sexual now? Same with water...

Notice that I never said I beleived this point of view, just that I see it out in society. :smile: But, yes, I suspect that if you told someone in the 'States how you enjoy the feeling of a hot tub jet of water on your genitals, it would get misconstrued pretty quickly as being sexual (when in fact it could just be sensual).