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Diaper lover here in Massachusetts

ilovecoffee69

ilovecoffee69

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Hi there my names David. So I’ve been wearing diapers off and on since I been a teenager. It’s hard because I am in a long term relationship and don’t think my significant other would be okay with it, so I keep it a secret from her. I just recently got back into it and been buying diapers but I feel so guilty about it and then I feel good about it at the same time. I am unsure where Im at with this situation. I see from this site and instagram that there is a lot of other people into abdl. I wish I can meet someone in person and we can wear together and have good conversations. I feel like that would make me feel like I’m not alone it’s just a thing where I wish I didn’t have to hide it from everyone I know personally in my life. Wish I had a friend that was into the same thing. I don’t know anymore I’m really not sure if I should continue to hide it and be on my own about it feel like it’s playing games with me. Help me out
 
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Hi David! My advice is for you to just tell your SO that your underwear of choice is diapers. The reality is that it is very unlikely that you will manage to not desire diapers for the remaining 60+ years of your life so you might as well tell her now and be honest with her and yourself. Hiding from your partner is unhealthy and can ruin the trust you share with each other and it simply isn’t necessary. Don’t do it!
 
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Hi David! My advice is for you to just tell your SO that your underwear of choice is diapers. The reality is that it is very unlikely that you will manage to not desire diapers for the remaining 60+ years of your life so you might as well tell her now and be honest with her and yourself. Hiding from your partner is unhealthy and can ruin the trust you share with each other and it simply isn’t necessary. Don’t do it!
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Hi. Thanks for the advice. I agree with you that I shouldn’t hide it. It’s a very hard subject for me as I want to tell her but it’s just not that easy. I don’t think she would be okay with it and I do not want to ruin my relationship with her.
 
You can probably find a way to back out of your revelation. I told my wife long after we were married and she accepted it well. Everyone is different so you'll never know until you bring it up.
 
Hi and welcome David, I'm also from Massachusetts. You should not feel guilty about liking diapers as long you have boundaries and not forcing it on anyone. I also keep this as a secret from my family and friends too. I feel guilty at first but, It's become what I'm. I hope you enjoy ADISC.
 
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