Diaper fetish hard to swallow for some partners... but have you seen the fetish sections?

neophyte

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I've never really browsed and paid attention to some of the socially acceptable items found in sex shops.

Have a look, take your time... I'll wait.



I didn't realize that anal electrocution was a thing, or sticking metal sticks into your penis. There are some wetting things there too, pee pee isn't off limits.

But a gentle diaper that has the same touch/sound stimulation as latex, leather; and could be used as punishment etc... makes most partners want to divorce and seek professional help?

Why is it that people get SO FREAKED OUT by a diaper fetish? Why hasn't it found it's way into fetish stores? Rearz does have a 'Seduction' diaper. I wonder what would happen if they put rearz seduction on the shelf at a love shop. There are copious amounts of diaper porn on the internet, it's evidently a real kink.
 

Evahasgone2

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too many people are close minded. diapers to some represent children or babies, and thats why many consider diaper lovers and abdl pedophiles. yes it seems narrow minded but very true. it is fear of the unknown. but when these same people look at whips and chains and hand cuffs they think of wild sex. weird huh.
 

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It is the age old "my kink is awesome and cute and sexy... but everyone else is a scary freak!" Rule. Seriously have met people into dressing up my little ponies but they think any other kink is gross. Too bad people throw stones from inside their glass houses.
 

SpAzpieSweeTot

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Y'know DaddyConnor, some of DDLG used to offput me. My Littleness has no hard edges. That's mine. One day, I decided I was gonna sit with my feelings about some of the things that touched less of the deep, emotional, lovey, gooey, cutesy, boding stuff I like, and not click off of the, "Okay, this is a sex thing," stuff, and for a minute or so, it felt bad, physically, but I sat with it anyway.

The growing pains were what caused that bad feeling. I was growing! Go, me! I've gone from, "Ow, ow, ow," to, "Not all of this is in my goodie-bag, but whatever."

I've noticed some DDLG clothes and accessories, like paci leashes, and clothes, are a little more elegant, and fancy, and dressy, than the more typical ABDL counterparts. I like that.

Some of the, "Gray,"er stuff, I'm just like, "When I'm not Little, maybe," or, "Ooh, a Shades reference! No one said I had to use these in Littlespace, Just because it came from Lilkink boutique."

At least it makes sense now.
 

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I like to dress the corpses I find in diapers before I have sex with them. Yeah, to be honest, wearing diapers seems tame compared to other fetishes and paraphilias. We're not weird. Everyone else is!
 

daddyconnor

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Y'know DaddyConnor, some of DDLG used to offput me. My Littleness has no hard edges. That's mine. One day, I decided I was gonna sit with my feelings about some of the things that touched less of the deep, emotional, lovey, gooey, cutesy, boding stuff I like, and not click off of the, "Okay, this is a sex thing," stuff, and for a minute or so, it felt bad, physically, but I sat with it anyway.

The growing pains were what caused that bad feeling. I was growing! Go, me! I've gone from, "Ow, ow, ow," to, "Not all of this is in my goodie-bag, but whatever."

I've noticed some DDLG clothes and accessories, like paci leashes, and clothes, are a little more elegant, and fancy, and dressy, than the more typical ABDL counterparts. I like that.

Some of the, "Gray,"er stuff, I'm just like, "When I'm not Little, maybe," or, "Ooh, a Shades reference! No one said I had to use these in Littlespace, Just because it came from Lilkink boutique."

At least it makes sense now.
Only some DDlg stuff? I don't judge at all. But I'm way more on the non-sexual side of the ddlg spectrum. It's all cute baby stuff and very gentle nurturing persuasion. I'm against leashes and forced collars (if others like them fine).

It's funny you mention the 50 shades reference. I think every horny guy saw the movie and was like how to start my fetlife post??? I know "extremely experienced 19 year old daddy... seeking hot submissive little girl to do whatever I say."

I read fetlife for the trainwreck personal ads. Omg hillarious. I mean so awful and cringy that you just can't help but laugh.

My issue isn't a persons kink at all. But I do laugh my butt off reading some stuff.

Most recently I saw a post about the importance of beatings to maintain discipline and make your little obey. All I could think was... "you have to beat on someone to get them to obey? All I have to do is tell her that daddy knows she is better than that and he is very disappointed in her. After 10 minutes of ignoring her, while saying I wish my good little princess would make daddy proud of her when she tries to talk or engage me. Blam, hugs and tears and sorry daddy I'll be good." I do warm soft patient kind and nurturing. I very rarely spank, unless requested specifically. And humiliation is a nonstarter (gentle non-critical play teasing is acceptable). It is just what is right for me and my little. Besides, I believe if you have to force something it's not freely given... which is just living a lie. If it isn't real and genuine, I dont want it. Others may be good with it because it's probably just a sex thing to them. Real doesn't matter as long as they get their booty call.

I don't need a power trip. Although I will say others love it and power to them. Even in the DDlg community there are wide differences in how we envision and act out our roles. And judgemental is the norm if you do things differently. So it isn't just with one kink it seems to be an issue with all of them.
 

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I like to dress the corpses I find in diapers before I have sex with them. Yeah, to be honest, wearing diapers seems tame compared to other fetishes and paraphilias. We're not weird. Everyone else is!
Laughing out loud, only I thought I did that.!
 

SpAzpieSweeTot

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Only some DDlg stuff? I don't judge at all. But I'm way more on the non-sexual side of the ddlg spectrum. It's all cute baby stuff and very gentle nurturing persuasion. I'm against leashes and forced collars (if others like them fine).

It's funny you mention the 50 shades reference. I think every horny guy saw the movie and was like how to start my fetlife post??? I know "extremely experienced 19 year old daddy... seeking hot submissive little girl to do whatever I say."

I read fetlife for the trainwreck personal ads. Omg hillarious. I mean so awful and cringy that you just can't help but laugh.

My issue isn't a persons kink at all. But I do laugh my butt off reading some stuff.

Most recently I saw a post about the importance of beatings to maintain discipline and make your little obey. All I could think was... "you have to beat on someone to get them to obey? All I have to do is tell her that daddy knows she is better than that and he is very disappointed in her. After 10 minutes of ignoring her, while saying I wish my good little princess would make daddy proud of her when she tries to talk or engage me. Blam, hugs and tears and sorry daddy I'll be good." I do warm soft patient kind and nurturing. I very rarely spank, unless requested specifically. And humiliation is a nonstarter (gentle non-critical play teasing is acceptable). It is just what is right for me and my little. Besides, I believe if you have to force something it's not freely given... which is just living a lie. If it isn't real and genuine, I dont want it. Others may be good with it because it's probably just a sex thing to them. Real doesn't matter as long as they get their booty call.

I don't need a power trip. Although I will say others love it and power to them. Even in the DDlg community there are wide differences in how we envision and act out our roles. And judgemental is the norm if you do things differently. So it isn't just with one kink it seems to be an issue with all of them.
I'm a huge Little softy, too. Okay, a decent amount of it still scares me, and looks really immodest, honestly, but some of the clothes are beautiful, in a way other ABDL clothes aren't. Granted, some are just raunchy. Not that that's bad. Not in my goodie bag.

It's like, some lg clothes are, "Don't I have a pretty, well dressed, well mannered Little Lady? I'm so glad to show her off, but only I know how Little she is, because I'm the only one who's business it is," vs the "Yaaaaaay! Me baby everybody! Look me! Notice," of AB clothes, and when I say paci leash, I mean, "paci no get losty thingy," not anything that goes on me. Why would I run off and leave the best Bubbles ever? That would disappoint him, or worse, scare him, and that would hurt me.

I saw these Laters baby earrings at LKB, and thought, "maybe in another headspace, but don't believe everything you watch."

I'd love to see LKB do jewelry that just says, "hers," as a present for my Bubba, and, "his," for me. Cute.

I have to be in big space to see the harder stuff, or, "Ah! Wun 'way!"

I feel better that I can at least handle that that's other people's thing, and my tummy doesn't turn, because I felt bad for being judgmental.

Fetlife is that shadowy place Mufasa warned Simba he must never go to. Place scares me :poop:less! I know there are, "kind and gentle end,". people on there, but, needle/haystack? I want to go to a munch, and eventually Teddycon, but I'm afraid of getting figuratively eaten alive on fetlife.
 
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And wtf happens with assholes like me, who mix diapers with all class of restraining stuff ? - Ok, I'm from the worst 😈😈😈😈😈

But I'll not die and less freak for or because that.
 

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And wtf happens with assholes like me, who mix diapers with all class of restraining stuff ? - Ok, I'm from the worst 😈😈😈😈😈

But I'll not die and less freak for or because that.
Hey, do your thing, sweetheart. I'm not judging. If it's not someone else's thing, then it's not. That's why it's your thing. Enjoy!
 

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That's what I do. Unnecessary advice, but thank you.
 
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I'm a huge Little softy, too. Okay, a decent amount of it still scares me, and looks really immodest, honestly, but some of the clothes are beautiful, in a way other ABDL clothes aren't. Granted, some are just raunchy. Not that that's bad. Not in my goodie bag.

It's like, some lg clothes are, "Don't I have a pretty, well dressed, well mannered Little Lady? I'm so glad to show her off, but only I know how Little she is, because I'm the only one who's business it is," vs the "Yaaaaaay! Me baby everybody! Look me! Notice," of AB clothes, and when I say paci leash, I mean, "paci no get losty thingy," not anything that goes on me. Why would I run off and leave the best Bubbles ever? That would disappoint him, or worse, scare him, and that would hurt me.

I saw these Laters baby earrings at LKB, and thought, "maybe in another headspace, but don't believe everything you watch."

I'd love to see LKB do jewelry that just says, "hers," as a present for my Bubba, and, "his," for me. Cute.

I have to be in big space to see the harder stuff, or, "Ah! Wun 'way!"

I feel better that I can at least handle that that's other people's thing, and my tummy doesn't turn, because I felt bad for being judgmental.

Fetlife is that shadowy place Mufasa warned Simba he must never go to. Place scares me :poop:less! I know there are, "kind and gentle end,". people on there, but, needle/haystack? I want to go to a munch, and eventually Teddycon, but I'm afraid of getting figuratively eaten alive on fetlife.
Me and Rox are hitting a munch tomorrow. It will be her first. I told her it will be fine. From my experience most people are nice if you are nice back. But if you want to find events then that is the space for it. No other boards/forums have it really.
 

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Me and Rox are hitting a munch tomorrow. It will be her first. I told her it will be fine. From my experience most people are nice if you are nice back. But if you want to find events then that is the space for it. No other boards/forums have it really.
I feel like I'd need some kind of guide, to know what I'm doing, and just filter through all the, "A girl! A girl! Mommy? Please, please, please," and, "Wanna be my naughty lg? Here, let daddy degrade you."
Fetlife is a learning process I don't wanna go through alone. Maybe if I already knew a few, "softer sided," people?
That's what I do. Unnecessary advice, but thank you.
Just didn't want you thinking anyone was calling you names.
 

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It isn't my first rodeo but it is Rox's. So I am nervous for her and really hoping nobody is mean or creepy. A good experience and she will be eager to do more. A bad one and it'll really mess up things.
 
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