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kashi

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Not sure where to post this, but I've got some questions for everyone. Have you guys tried either of these two dating sites for ABDL's?

https://www.datecgl.com
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http://diapermates.com

If you have I'm wondering do you have any input? Should I try them out? I'm not great at gauging these things and I'm looking for thoughts.
 

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I hadn't heard of datecgl.com. Just signed up to check them out. They have 2790 users so they are small. I'm looking for older women, 45-60, and only 2 in that age range showed up in a search.
I do not like diapermates.com's search function.
 
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diapermates has been around for a while and seems fine, although I've never heard of any success stories there (but I'm hardly that well connected, so that doesn't mean anything). Never heard of datecgl before. They look like they went to some efforts to set it up, but it's still small, and their rules say that they just launched in October 2017, so they're only a few months old now. They have an actual privacy policy and terms of use, which is good. The terms themselves aren't great. I'm particularly not a fan of this line buried in their TOU
Any information that is posted to DateCGL becomes the property of DateCGL and may be publicly available and viewable by any visitors at the site`s discretion
It's worth noting that this isn't unusual though, even ADISC does something like this in Moo's TOS post, although he doesn't say that they'll make info public, which is better.
 

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You're certainly welcome to search anywhere you want to.

A word of warning though. Searching for someone who loves diapers first, and then maybe you second, is going to severly limit your chances of finding someone. (Though I have heard a small handfull of success stories going this route).

Realistically, you're probably going to have to find someone else just like the rest of us. Start by dating normally, then somewhere between the third and sixth date tell that person about your diapered side. Don't wait too long to tell them though or you could end up wasting time with the wrong person- no matter how much you might love them.
 

kashi

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You're certainly welcome to search anywhere you want to.

A word of warning though. Searching for someone who loves diapers first, and then maybe you second, is going to severly limit your chances of finding someone. (Though I have heard a small handfull of success stories going this route).

Realistically, you're probably going to have to find someone else just like the rest of us. Start by dating normally, then somewhere between the third and sixth date tell that person about your diapered side. Don't wait too long to tell them though or you could end up wasting time with the wrong person- no matter how much you might love them.

Yeah I'm aware of this. I've actually had a lot of luck finding seemingly Vanilla people and slowly introducing them to this side of myself. At this point though I'm single and just looking to cast a wider net.
 

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I hadn't heard of datecgl.com. Just signed up to check them out. They have 2790 users so they are small. I'm looking for older women, 45-60, and only 2 in that age range showed up in a search.
I do not like diapermates.com's search function.
I'm looking for older myself in a similar age range. I'm not looking on any ABDL sites though because I don't feel this part of me is big enough to focus my future on it. I'd like to look in off grid, homesteading dating sites but not much luck there. I went to Christian sites because that is my main priority in finding someone equally yoked or I guess that means a believer in Jesus Christ. I've met some nice people but maybe dating isn't in my cards right now. Maybe there is something bigger.

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Fetlife.com I've been trying. Some.of the stuff freaks me out but at the same time they are probably freaked out at our stuff. So it's neutral and seems safe with all the munches.

Probably the only dating site I had success with is OkCupid.com
 

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When I was dating, I would say meeting people in person or a "vanilla"dating site is the way to go. As mentioned previously, I've had success with Ok Cupid. The problem with ABDL-geared dating sites is that there is a lot of cringe-worthy posts and messages being sent to females. The ratio of guys to girls participating in these sites is often unbalanced. I feel bad for women on these sites who are regarded by some as diaper changers or mothers, not for the people they are. Some guys can be straight-up creepy. A lot of men with no game ruin it for others seeking meaningful relationships from sites such as diapermates.com. Posts and messages sent to women stating "will you be my mommy?" or straight-up requests for sex with no conversation ruins these websites, driving women away. Maybe some are into that, but I doubt the majority are.

FetLife is another cringe-worthy site if you are looking just to meet people online, but it is a useful tool for finding munches and meet-ups in your local area. I've used FL to attend munches and "Littles Invasions" where you meet others in person and form friendships and relationships with others in the community. That's just my two cents though.

Kudos to the person who posted diaper pics up on Tinder. That must have been very amusing :)
 
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