So this is the reason I joined this site. I realize that this has to be one of the most frequently asked questions, but I gotta know. I recently started seeing this girl whom I really like. We 'got intamate' this past weekend, so I know she's DTF. I like her to the point of wanting to quit with everything (ABDL-wise), but that wouldn't make me happy. Question. Should I 'come out to her', how should I do it, should I do it, when should I do it. Or should I take the way where I give up a fun fetish (that doesn't hamper me in any way)?