IncompleteDude
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I think for the sake of new members and members who experience unusual situations, guidance along these lines should be posted:
Of course, I think it would be best if people that believed topics such as these to be deceitful, and refuse to ask exploritory (not mocking) questions to determine reality, would simply ignore/report the thread and otherwise let it die. But I simply don't believe that will ever happen. It's easier to supress the unusual and different, than ask the questions and do the work to sift through the truth and fiction of life's myraid of possibilities. Since this behaviour cannot be avoided, it is better to institutionalize it through regulation, and thereby manage it within reason.
I'm tired of seeing these bullshit flamewars pollute the forums.
I say this, because these topics without exception result in vitriol, flaming and rep wars. It would be better if everyone pretended that these things never happened, even if they most assuredly do albeit rarely. For the sake of civility, things outside of the ABDL "norm" should be discussed only in private or the context of fiction. New members need to be acutely aware of this, despite the fact that it is often exceptional situations that lead to a development of ABDL interests, because they are the ones most viciously accused of deceit.Do not post about:
Anything posted violating these rules will be moved to the story forum and edited to indicate that it is fictional, or simply deleted. Posting on such topics outside of the story forum is not allowed.
- Being babied, except if you are physically a baby.
- Wearing 24/7 for longer than a few weeks (except if incon).
- Relatives or friends knowing about you being ABDL and facilitating it in any way.
- Being seen or caught in public wearing diapers (except if incon) or AB paraphernalia.
- Speculation on the ABDL nature of others.
- Anyone you have ever met, especially in childhood, who have coincidentally been ABDL themselves.
- Being in any relationship where you are babied on an ongoing basis.
If explanitory proof such as documentation of mental illness, photographic evidence or confirmation by a trusted member is provided, exceptions may but not necessarily be granted. In these cases, such topics will be noted as vetted by the moderation staff, and must be submitted to them for review before being posted.
Of course, I think it would be best if people that believed topics such as these to be deceitful, and refuse to ask exploritory (not mocking) questions to determine reality, would simply ignore/report the thread and otherwise let it die. But I simply don't believe that will ever happen. It's easier to supress the unusual and different, than ask the questions and do the work to sift through the truth and fiction of life's myraid of possibilities. Since this behaviour cannot be avoided, it is better to institutionalize it through regulation, and thereby manage it within reason.
I'm tired of seeing these bullshit flamewars pollute the forums.