Not at all!!
If anythings, for me, my deep concern for the health of my ever increasing number of AB/DC friends are to provide an awareness the hardships of 24/7, IC and an attempt to shield those who have a want to join us by experiencing 24/7, IC. I may sound a bit hard when I recommend that my AB/DL friends reframe from become 'by choice' 24/7, IC. It is never from a position of offense, but from a position of great concern.
When it comes to public display, please understand that those of us who are by no choice of our own 24/7, IC, have long been out in the public as part of normal life. Each of us have been faced with humiliation caused by leaks, poorly fitting cloths and having to change in iffy locations. Many of us have decades of being out and about and we have long worked to gain acceptance. It is likely why I can be a bit cautionary.
There is no question that the AB/DL community has been very instrumental in increasing the number and quality of products available today. It is important to also understand that most AB/DL suppliers had begun providing custom wear to the IC community as well.