youwishyouwereme
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I have wanted to tell my girlfriend about my interest in diapers for a few months now. We have had the most amazing highs and some of the most stressful lows that anyone could imagine and we have got through them, each time coming out the other end stronger and more committed and in love with each other. I knew that I would eventually tell her, but had no idea when or how, but I did feel as though she would be open as we have a pretty wild sex life already!
I have been dropping subtle hints about adult diapers for a while now, sort of testing the waters, to see how she would react. For example, she went on a recent long overnight bus trip and was complaining about having to use the toilets and I told her she should just wear a diaper, she laughed and said she would deal with it. We were in a pharmacy and I often joke around while shopping and handed her a packet of incontinent diapers and said she's getting older now and she once again laughed and put them back. We watched some documentaries and there was a segment, that I didn't know about in advance, about adult babies and we talked about it and I tested her opinion compared to other fetishes. There were several others but they were the main ones and they were all met with positive reactions.
So there I was laying in bed with her last night and we were talking about how amazing our sex life. I said how I couldn't believe some of the things we have done and that I never would have thought I would be able to actually live out some of these fantasies. She then shared something that she had done on her own before we met that she had never told anyone about. I felt like the trust between us had never been stronger. I knew this was the opportunity to tell her about my interest in diapers. My heart was racing!
I started by telling her that I also had something that I have never told anyone before. She paused and turned around to face me with the biggest look of excitement and openness to hear anything. I was so nervous, I started by telling her some of the things it wasn't...eg. cross dressing, being a gimp etc. I then said that I didn't want to be an adult baby...but...I am interested in wearing diapers.
The look on her face was priceless. I knew straight away that she wasn't disgusted, angry or hurt. She said she had heard of people wanting to be adult babies, but when I explained that I have no interest in this and just wanted to experiment with diapers she was intrigued and started asking the normal type questions...history, why, how does it all work, how come you never tried them growing up, why have you kept it a secret??? As we talked I explained that the ultimate for me would be for her to help me put them on, include them in foreplay sometimes or let me sleep in them. While I was on a roll I also floated the idea of her trying it once, which is common when we share a sexual fantasy... a don't knock it until you try it sort of thing, and she is open to this down the track. She has been really honest about how it probably won't be something that turns her on but she thinks she will find it enjoyable to watch the pleasure it will bring me.
So here I am sitting with her writing this post (her idea)...my first ever after spending almost 2 decades reading other people's experiences good and bad and never thought I would be able to write my own because I would never share it with anyone.
Now to start shopping!
I have wanted to tell my girlfriend about my interest in diapers for a few months now. We have had the most amazing highs and some of the most stressful lows that anyone could imagine and we have got through them, each time coming out the other end stronger and more committed and in love with each other. I knew that I would eventually tell her, but had no idea when or how, but I did feel as though she would be open as we have a pretty wild sex life already!
I have been dropping subtle hints about adult diapers for a while now, sort of testing the waters, to see how she would react. For example, she went on a recent long overnight bus trip and was complaining about having to use the toilets and I told her she should just wear a diaper, she laughed and said she would deal with it. We were in a pharmacy and I often joke around while shopping and handed her a packet of incontinent diapers and said she's getting older now and she once again laughed and put them back. We watched some documentaries and there was a segment, that I didn't know about in advance, about adult babies and we talked about it and I tested her opinion compared to other fetishes. There were several others but they were the main ones and they were all met with positive reactions.
So there I was laying in bed with her last night and we were talking about how amazing our sex life. I said how I couldn't believe some of the things we have done and that I never would have thought I would be able to actually live out some of these fantasies. She then shared something that she had done on her own before we met that she had never told anyone about. I felt like the trust between us had never been stronger. I knew this was the opportunity to tell her about my interest in diapers. My heart was racing!
I started by telling her that I also had something that I have never told anyone before. She paused and turned around to face me with the biggest look of excitement and openness to hear anything. I was so nervous, I started by telling her some of the things it wasn't...eg. cross dressing, being a gimp etc. I then said that I didn't want to be an adult baby...but...I am interested in wearing diapers.
The look on her face was priceless. I knew straight away that she wasn't disgusted, angry or hurt. She said she had heard of people wanting to be adult babies, but when I explained that I have no interest in this and just wanted to experiment with diapers she was intrigued and started asking the normal type questions...history, why, how does it all work, how come you never tried them growing up, why have you kept it a secret??? As we talked I explained that the ultimate for me would be for her to help me put them on, include them in foreplay sometimes or let me sleep in them. While I was on a roll I also floated the idea of her trying it once, which is common when we share a sexual fantasy... a don't knock it until you try it sort of thing, and she is open to this down the track. She has been really honest about how it probably won't be something that turns her on but she thinks she will find it enjoyable to watch the pleasure it will bring me.
So here I am sitting with her writing this post (her idea)...my first ever after spending almost 2 decades reading other people's experiences good and bad and never thought I would be able to write my own because I would never share it with anyone.
Now to start shopping!
