My real life father figure (since I was 15) just told me that I am his baby. He has always said that when I act like a baby he will treat me like one but it was a way of discipline . But I have BPD and am a cutter.. I have really been struggling. I asked him if I could be his baby and he said yes. OF COURSE it doesn't mean diapers and such BUT he holds me,is extra gentle and is watching out for me. He even took me by the hand and buckled me into the car!!! I know it is because he loves me and is worried about me. I honestly just feel blessed.