Being Caught?

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Have you ever been caught with diapers or even while wearing one. I have been! I was confronted from my mom when I was younger about havering soils Goodnites in my trash.
I was never actually caught with a diaper, but my dad did find out about my DL side. One day when I was 13, I had an abdl story opened on my laptop and my dad called me out of my room to talk to me about something. I was in the hall about 10 feet from my room and from where I was standing, I had a good view of my laptop. He talked to me for a minute or 2 then I turned around to check on my laptop and my grandmother was standing in my room looking at the screen. I panicked and ran into the room to close the laptop. Terrible idea. Naturally they were suspicious, so my dad spent the next 20 minutes interrogating me about what was on the computer. He kept asking what was on the computer and I kept saying "nothing" until he got very irritated. Eventually I just said "I can't tell you. I just can't" and he seemed to accept that. He told me to go take a shower and I knew that meant they were going to check my laptop.

So, for the next few days I was an absolute nervous wreck because I had some BAD stuff in my search history. I didn't know about cleaner abdl sites like this at the time. I was wondering when and if he'd confront me about it. Well, I got my answer 3 days later when he called me into the living room for what turned out to be the most humiliating and traumatic conversation of my entire life. To say it was horrible is an understatement. It was basically 45 minutes of him asking questions regarding every aspect of my abdl side and me just bawling my eyes out. I don't remember most of the conversation but the one question that stood out was if I was attracted to small children. That stung. He also grounded me from using the computer indefinitely so I wouldn't be tempted to look at this stuff. For the longest time I couldn't bring myself to think about that day because just the memory of it made me want to throw up. So to sum it up... don't get caught. Ever.

Flutters, what ever happened between you and your mom when she found those diapers?
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Like theQman I was never caught with a diaper.

Although, when I was about 3 or 4 years old I fell asleep sucking on my old pacifier that I found was still around, had been put away by my parents and I had forget about it, this was around the time that I started having the desire to be like a baby again, I woke up the next morning by my parents and felt very embarassed but because I was still very young they just smiled and didn't think too much of it, however I never found my pacifier again after that xD.

Also, I always wondered if my younger brother ever found any pictures or browsing history because when we were children and teenagers we only had one computer, and I believe that the multiple user accounts in Windows was only introduced in XP, so from around 1997 and early 2000's, that feature didn't exist in windows.
TheQman.. wow I'm so sorry :( that was horrible!
Good thing you can get acceptance here <3
TheQman.. wow I'm so sorry :( that was horrible!
Good thing you can get acceptance here <3
Aww thanks :o Yeah it seriously sucked, but now as far as he knows, it was just phase and I got over it years ago :lol:
Aww thanks :o Yeah it seriously sucked, but now as far as he knows, it was just phase and I got over it years ago :lol:

Yea thats what I like about this site, everybody is accepting. But to answer your question, I just gave my mom a BS answer and it was left at that. I don't even remember what I said but I know I panicked and was caught off gaurd. So for now on I "clean" my room if I'm not home for a while.
Aww thanks :o Yeah it seriously sucked, but now as far as he knows, it was just phase and I got over it years ago :lol:

I know exactly how you felt. When I was 22, I came home from college to have dinner with my parents and some friends of theirs. It was a tough year, the Vietnam War raging, my boyfriend having gotten a low draft number, drugs, you name it for 1970. We started dinner and I started crying and I couldn't stop. I was having a psychotic break. I went back to school but while I was gone, my mom searched my bedroom, probably looking for drugs, but what she found were my makeshift diapers and gay porn. I think she told me what she found when I came home for dinner the next weekend, and I fell through the floor.

It was so embarrassing, and the gay porn in 1970 was dangerous to have, because homosexuality was considered a mental illness and to engage in sex with someone of the same sex was illegal. My mom sent me to a shrink at a residential mental facility near Princeton, so I had to drive to the facility, find the doctor's office and discuss wearing diapers and having sex with guys. It was a nightmare. Eventually college ended, I graduated and got a job. I moved out and never looked back, or at least I tried not to look back. But as you can see, I still live with it somewhere in the dark recesses of my memories.
Yeah, getting caught is one of the worst feelings ever. My mom made me so ashamed of myself and threatened to take me to a shrink.
when I got caught my mom yelled at me saying diapers are not cool and a whole lot of other stuff she told some of my family about it that was humiliating she even had me wear big disposable diapers 24/7 as a punishment its hard to hide when your in high school so glad those years are over. Now that I don't live with her I do as I please.
Me getting caught wasn't necessarily a bad thing. When I was 16 (in 2002) my bedwetting came back and I didn't want to tell anyone, I went and bought Depend Fitted Briefs and one day within the first weeks of being diapered my mom came into my room while I was at school and saw one of my wet diapers in my trash and her and my dad approached me and asked about it. I said I have been bedwetting again for the past month, so my parents caught me and agreed to help pay for my diapers till I was 18. After that I went to my family doctor and Urologist and they ruled my bedwetting to stress, deep sleep, I had more evaluation on it, but decided to not see the Doctors again. 13 years later I am still a bedwetter and now also a diaper lover.
I was working with the owner of the IT company I work for and had to install an new power bar on a system, it the first time I think he has seen the top of my diaper and my shirt went up a bit and my diaper top was exposed.
He did not mention any thing so hopefully he did not not notice, but if he did I am not worried people will find out eventually and I am at peace with needing diapers for my medical OAB issue,
I've been count once back in high school. I'd usually wear right after school because both of my parents worked during the week. Well mom came home early one day and caught me in full little mode. I just started throwing up I was so embarrassed. Both her and dad just wanted me to talk to them about it but I just couldn't do it. Eventually they gave up and told me they'd keep it secret and not to do it again. Tbh best reaction I could've hoped for from them.
I haven't been caught although I have come very close. The closest I've come to getting caught was when I was in the middle of changing and my father knocked on my door. I'm lucky in that my privacy is well respected at home and we talked back and forth through the door instead of coming in. I don't think I breathed at all through the whole conversation though.
I've never been caught wearing a diaper / punished for wearing one, but I've been called into question plenty of times. My mom, whom probably knew the whole time, would give me a few strikes before asking about finding make-shift diapers or baby diapers in my room. Finally, at 12, she took me aside while working in the yard and said:

"So, tell me about this diaper thing you have going on in your room?"

Looking back on it now, that moment would have been a nice opportunity to come clean. Instead, I blamed it on my bedwetting returning and a desperate attempt to treat it myself. I expected her to flip out, but she offered to take me to the doctor instead. There were other times that she brought it up as well, like the time she found a pair of sweat pants that I had wet (on purpose, unknown to her), but as long as I denied any foul play, she seemed to stay out of it.

There were at least two separate times I had come home and all of my ABDL stuff was missing, including adult diapers, bottles, pacifiers, and even stories/pictures. But surprisingly, there was never a conversation about it.

Before I finally moved out, my Mom busted into my room early in the morning to grab her hair dryer, which for some reason I had used the night before (Probably to fix up a new goofy ass rocker hairdo that I was trying out). I was wearing nothing but a diaper under my covers, and there were both fresh and used diapers, wipes, and everything all over my bathroom. In a panic, I wrapped myself in a blanket and screamed for her to not go in my bathroom. Afterwords, I handed her the hairdryer myself while she was outside of my room. Obviously, that fiasco stirred up the whole house. Even then, I waited for her to ask me about it, so I could tell her that I had porn out or something equally as uncomfortable, but easier to understand. It never came up.

I wore diapers under my clothes pretty steadily throughout my entire childhood. At the time I probably thought I was pretty slick, but looking back on it now, I'm sure at least my Mom knew what was up. She seemed to just let it happen though. Although, if I asked her for permission to wear diapers, I'm sure she would have never complied.

Cloud :cloud9:
I was caught by my mother a few years back. She went through my closet and found my stash of walgreens diapers. She flipped and asked me to see a psychiatrist. She hasn't mentioned it since that incident.
I'm also pretty sure my roommates and a few other friends have their suspicions. They just don't know exactly what it is. I've had my pacifier and Goodnites fall off my bed when they have been in my bedroom. No one has asked any questions, though.
I was never caught wearing. But when I was a lot younger I used my psp to go on abdl sites, one day my brother told me the using a special site I could download game demos onto my psp, so naturally I let him use my psp to find the site, big mistake. So he found out and confronted me about it, but I acted like I didn't know what he was talking about, and years later it doesn't seem like he remembers so I think I got off relatively easy.
Well, my mom discovered diapers under my bed when I was 15, probably.. I didn't use them on purpose yet didn't throw the old ones away. Of course I cloaked them the best I could, assuming that nobody will ever check under my bed.. One day I returned home and found that my bed was moved and and there was HUGE mountain of diapers!!! I was shocked, I didn't know myself there were so many!!...
Worst of all, my mom was there.. Crying..
She didn't notice me and I hurried to hide.. I tried to figure excuses but I couldn't (
A moment later I saw her, she was smiling like nothing happened, my bed was returned to it's place.. Later she tried to ask me something, I suppose, trying to avoid straight questions, I played dumb. Of course I threw away most of my diapers after this. And hid the rest in other place..
If you wear diapers long enough, nor matter how careful you might be, sooner or later you are going to get caught wearing them. It may be your parents, your significant other, co-workers, airport security (:blushie: **blushes** --as this was my horrific experience), but you will be caught.

The odds have it that at some point you will be lax in your efforts to hide it, or find yourself in a situation that you didn't think about and others will discover your paddedness. This happened to me as I didn't think too much about wearing a diaper through airport security (it is not against the law, not a prohibited substance or carry on item) But I was apparently selected for a more thorough screening and they discovered the additional padded nature during a pat down. I admitted that I was wearing "incontinence protection" --which I guess as an otherwise healthy-looking person, seemed out of place to them. This resulted in having to submit to being taken to a private room and having to remove my outer clothing to show the diaper uncovered. I did not have to remove the diaper, but they conducted a more thorough pat down of the diaper before letting me go.

This was one of the most embarrassing moments of my life. I will never, REPEAT, never do this again. While I had technically done nothing wrong, the simple fact of having something out of the ordinary resulted in my being caught in a diaper. --I still have to wonder if they discovered my adult sized paci in my carry-on although they didn't mention it. :blushie:

So, bottom line. Face it, if you wear regularly and often, the likelihood of someone discovering or considering that you may be wearing is pretty high. :detective3

Teddy Bear Cowboy
Decided to wear while at the mall, an my pants were loose. Forgot my belt, and when I bent over to grab some change that fell in the arcade, exposed. A couple kids behind me started laughing. Hiked up my pants, deep blush... Left the arcade. Kinda my fault going out padded in public, an forgetting my belt.

But the thrill still tempts me from time to time.
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