Being caught by the significant other

[Jrodabdl]

I am mostly an adult baby but love to dress up pretty and sissy. I have been caught this way by most of the women I've dated in my life especially if we lived together. I was curious how others may have handled being caught in a situation such as this and how the reaction was. Ill share my worst experience that I was video taped and outed as an adult baby by a girl I had been dating for not very long. She lied to me about being okay with it at first and then shortly afterwards all my friends and family had pictures of me in diapers and cute outfits. Most embarrassing thing I've ever endured

 

[daisycupcake]

I've been caught by ex girlfriend's and a ex wife. I got caught once wearing a bra and panties they weren't my girlfriend but her sisters

 

[BobbiSueEllen]

This reminds me of an AVVO commercial a few years back, does anyone remember that one? Professional gal comes home, catches her husband in a fairy outfit; she sighs, instantly grabs her cellphone with a disappointed look on her face and says "AVVO". Obviously looking for a divorce lawyer. Seems strange that's grounds for divorce but I guess it sells a product.

Thankfully, the real world's a bit more tolerant than that. My ex knew before we married, that helped.

 

[warmfeeling]

I am mostly an adult baby but love to dress up pretty and sissy. I have been caught this way by most of the women I've dated in my life especially if we lived together. I was curious how others may have handled being caught in a situation such as this and how the reaction was. Ill share my worst experience that I was video taped and outed as an adult baby by a girl I had been dating for not very long. She lied to me about being okay with it at first and then shortly afterwards all my friends and family had pictures of me in diapers and cute outfits. Most embarrassing thing I've ever endured

That’s awful, I feel for you , some people are horrible

 

[dogboy]

I had to come out to my wife when she saw my Amazon diaper order. It's a long story but after I had the talk with her, she was very accepting and her first response was, did I have enough supplies. After that, I could wear diapers around the house whenever I wanted.

 

[Cottontail]

I was video taped and outed as an adult baby by a girl I had been dating for not very long. She lied to me about being okay with it at first and then shortly afterwards all my friends and family had pictures of me in diapers and cute outfits. Most embarrassing thing I've ever endured

Ouch. I'm not a litigious person in general, but something like that might have me lawyering up. Revenge porn is no joke. (Granted, reliving it all in court could be traumatic.)

I dabbled into wearing bras and panties when I was in high school. I never had a girlfriend (or any friend) find out about it. Mom found some of my bras, though. She was worried that I'd stolen them from somewhere, and was surprised and relieved when I told her that I'd bought them with my own money. She let me keep them and didn't mention them again, but I was so embarrassed that I ended up purging all of that stuff not long after, and I never replaced it.

 

[Samantha]

Ouch. I'm not a litigious person in general, but something like that might have me lawyering up. Revenge porn is no joke. (Granted, reliving it all in court could be traumatic.)

I dabbled into wearing bras and panties when I was in high school. I never had a girlfriend (or any friend) find out about it. Mom found some of my bras, though. She was worried that I'd stolen them from somewhere, and was surprised and relieved when I told her that I'd bought them with my own money. She let me keep them and didn't mention them again, but I was so embarrassed that I ended up purging all of that stuff not long after, and I never replaced it.

Yes us females do tend to react differently in these situations for such a wide range of reasons & is different for all women & certainly being in a situation like this myself once before, I understand, but certainly not the outing or betraying to the SO's family & friends etc is not on. Sorry you felt embarrassed when your mum found out & hopefully you are in a better place & moved on as we all have our quirks etc, so be yourself & happy 😘

 

[Cottontail]

Sorry you felt embarrassed when your mum found out & hopefully you are in a better place & moved on as we all have our quirks etc, so be yourself & happy 😘

Thank you, yes, that was decades ago. I still have a great relationship with Mom and am honestly thankful that she went easy on me about that. (She also, I'm quite certain, knew about my diapers and never said anything.) I haven't played with bras and panties since, but can honestly say that the desire has left me. On the other hand, I've found myself strongly preferring girl-oriented diapers, pacifiers, and other "little" stuff, so my general affinity for girl-ness is still alive and well.

 

[Samantha]

Thank you, yes, that was decades ago. I still have a great relationship with Mom and am honestly thankful that she went easy on me about that. (She also, I'm quite certain, knew about my diapers and never said anything.) I haven't played with bras and panties since, but can honestly say that the desire has left me. On the other hand, I've found myself strongly preferring girl-oriented diapers, pacifiers, and other "little" stuff, so my general affinity for girl-ness is still alive and well.

Well that is great to hear & you have taken it in your stride & moved on, but also kept your affinity to girly stuff.... good on 🥰

 

[SherriLil]

I came out to my wife about wearing diapers before I got caught, because I knew that at some point, I was going to get caught, and I wanted it to happen on my own terms. That worked out pretty well, all told - it could have gone much worse than it did. I did have a moment of being "caught" by her, though, after that, when I was working up in my office in a pink diaper, I think it was a Rearz Princess Pink or Lil' Bella, something like that, because I thought she'd left the house for the day, but then she came back... and made a bee line straight to my office, because she'd forgotten to print something. In my new house, my office is above the garage and requires a walk outdoors to get to, so I always have backup pants or shorts with me if I'm lounging around in a diaper, but in my old house, my office was down the hall from our bedroom, so I didn't necessarily have a "crash outfit" readily at hand, as if someone came to the door, it was a short dash to the bedroom. So, the front door opened, and then she was thump-thump-thumping up the stairs... and the there she was, and there I was, still sitting in my office chair. She'd seen me in white diapers plenty of times by that point, and some printed diapers, but nothing quite that "baby girl."

So, of course, then the printer jams and I have to get up and walk over to it, and abandon all cover, and chat with her and tinker with the paper feeder. She didn't say anything... maybe once we'd crossed the "my husband wears diapers" line, "specifically which diapers" became irrelevant, sort of like "I was hit by a truck" versus "I was hit by a pink truck." It's the "truck" part that counts.

Other than that, the only other instance of being "caught" by anyone significant was when my stepfather found my stash of homemade diapers under my dresser when I was 13, and he yelled at me in front of my family while waving one of them around. After that, I abandoned "this" for over 20 years!

 

[Samantha]

I came out to my wife about wearing diapers before I got caught, because I knew that at some point, I was going to get caught, and I wanted it to happen on my own terms. That worked out pretty well, all told - it could have gone much worse than it did. I did have a moment of being "caught" by her, though, after that, when I was working up in my office in a pink diaper, I think it was a Rearz Princess Pink or Lil' Bella, something like that, because I thought she'd left the house for the day, but then she came back... and made a bee line straight to my office, because she'd forgotten to print something. In my new house, my office is above the garage and requires a walk outdoors to get to, so I always have backup pants or shorts with me if I'm lounging around in a diaper, but in my old house, my office was down the hall from our bedroom, so I didn't necessarily have a "crash outfit" readily at hand, as if someone came to the door, it was a short dash to the bedroom. So, the front door opened, and then she was thump-thump-thumping up the stairs... and the there she was, and there I was, still sitting in my office chair. She'd seen me in white diapers plenty of times by that point, and some printed diapers, but nothing quite that "baby girl."

So, of course, then the printer jams and I have to get up and walk over to it, and abandon all cover, and chat with her and tinker with the paper feeder. She didn't say anything... maybe once we'd crossed the "my husband wears diapers" line, "specifically which diapers" became irrelevant, sort of like "I was hit by a truck" versus "I was hit by a pink truck." It's the "truck" part that counts.

Other than that, the only other instance of being "caught" by anyone significant was when my stepfather found my stash of homemade diapers under my dresser when I was 13, and he yelled at me in front of my family while waving one of them around. After that, I abandoned "this" for over 20 years!

Always better to come out first, but appreciate that not always easy or possible, but nothing beats good old honesty

 

[DorothyPansy]

I work as a brick layer & captain of the local golf club just turned 50 my girlfriend who is 15yrs younger was tidying during lockdown in the garage, where I kept it's still hard to say my little pink sissy dresses with petticoats & other baby dresses white tights pink T-bar glittery shoes my big padded frilly nappies blonde curly wig my outfits were all hidden in an old sport bag my GF said she didn't mention it for a few hours before she opened up the in front of me I was on the phone to a friend she was crying asking me to explain why, it was hard to tell her that I liked to be a little girl of 18 months all dressed up in my nappy and having my blonde hair in pink bows and little pink dress on being a baby girl & I picked all the dresses myself and my T-bar glittery pink shoes she was listening & said my brick layer golfer Macho man really wants to have his big nappy on with her pretty dress and tights and big teddy bear to cuddle with her pretty shoes in a voice woman use with babies she was laying all my things out and found my pink dummy and put it in I sucked hard when she found my barbie princess outfit I had to put my silver plastic tiara clip on earrings and bracelets GF was asking me if I felt like like a big girl in her baby voice, I was asked to pick out a dress to wear for her with my white tights and shoes and my jewelry she changed into her short leather skirt and black leather ankle boots little top on her hair done I was in a little pink dress & I could feel my nappy between my legs my GF asked me in her baby voice how long I had been dressing up as a little girl in my nappy and I looked so pretty in my dress and hair done & I looked like a little girl not a brick layer or golf captain as they don't wear barbie jewelry and lacy dresses with a frilly nappy she knew I loved her outfit I was excited she saw, she said I was excited in my new dress and hair do & I had to say that I am a baby girl & not a man who says that he likes a womans outfit, I am dressed as a little girl just now GFmakes me write to Santa xx

 

[Samantha]

Well that is great to hear & you have taken it in your stride & moved on, but also kept your affinity to girly stuff.... good on 🥰

If you ever wanna chat, flick me a message as always looking to chat & learn more 😘

 

[Samantha]

If you ever wanna chat, flick me a message as always looking to chat & learn more 😘

Thanks 🥰

 

[DorothyPansy]

If you ever wanna chat, flick me a message as always looking to chat & learn more 😘

Thank you for that Samantha it's nice of you to say that I would like to chat with my nappy on with my baby powder and frilly plastic rustling pink panties with my white tights pink T-bar glittery shoes blonde curly wig being a helpless little girl with you so you can learn all about me x

 

[Samantha]

Thank you for that Samantha it's nice of you to say that I would like to chat with my nappy on with my baby powder and frilly plastic rustling pink panties with my white tights pink T-bar glittery shoes blonde curly wig being a helpless little girl with you so you can learn all about me x

Always looking to learn more about, so perhaps when I'm an Est Contributor we can chat without clogging up the blog

 

[texswim]

I had to come out to my wife when she saw my Amazon diaper order. It's a long story but after I had the talk with her, she was very accepting and her first response was, did I have enough supplies. After that, I could wear diapers around the house whenever I wanted.

My wife has also accepted my wearing diapers 24/7. It started by my convincing her I needed diapers at night to avoid bedwetting. After that I started wearing them 24/7 and she even helped me throw out all my boy's underwear. Today she will even buy diapers for me. Eventually I convinced her I needed plastic pants at night over the diaper. Thus I have plastic pants in many different colors and patterns. She even helps me pick out a particular color on certain days. Now it's not unusual for me to sit in the den in the evening with only my diaper and plastic pants on - or sometimes with a T-Shirt. I might add that we have no kids at home.

 

[Richpip]

I had to come out to my wife when she saw my Amazon diaper order. It's a long story but after I had the talk with her, she was very accepting and her first response was, did I have enough supplies. After that, I could wear diapers around the house whenever I wanted.

And that's why I can't order nappies on amazon!

 

[Samantha]

And that's why I can't order nappies on amazon!

Be great to chat sometime Richpip

 

[DownLow]

I’m lucky that I live alone, I can wear nappies till my hearts content, but would still love to have someone to share these moments with 😍