Bedwetting

[ElderlyYoungPerson]

Did you wear every night?

When I really got serious about retraining, yes. In my mind at the time, that was the way I thought was best for me. What got me thinking about wearing nightly was really a result of turning 21. With my occasional nighttime problems adding drinking on top of that resulted in issues that were more common than the amount of laundry I was willing to deal with. Unfortunately I didn't have the opportunity to wear nightly while I was younger. Oh well, I have the rest of life ahead of me to wear as much as I want!

 

[SoS7883]

Gotcha !! Haha yeah I just dont know what to do ,sometimes I really like it and want to and other times I'm angry with myself about it,it flip flops I also get nervous that I should never tell anyone or that a guy would never want me

 

[Aby]

Did she talk about balancing it though ? Like for me I wait till I'm super stressed or I havent masturbated in a long time and then do it for like 3 days straight... is that good?

Balance is always something to strive for, there is nothing wrong with masterbating in private, just be good to yourself, don't hurt yourself.

Also you got to be you, before anyone will ever love you, that means you got to love yourself too. One day you will find the right person, the worst thing that could happen is you find the wrong person that doesn't love you, and that includes all your oddities. I will not go in a relationship again unless the person loves little me too. I have made the mistake in the past to try to erase this part of me to please someone else, I ended up hurting myself and very unhappy.

 

[SoS7883]

Thanks I needed to hear that, bigsby hugs to ya !!!

 

[Peepeegirl]

Are you ok with this? Does your therapist think its emotionally good for you to have diapers and a paci?

Well she doesn’t know abou the diaper I told only about the pacifier a few months ago, because I use to cut myself so she said it was better a pacifier than cutting, but when I told her about the accidents she said it may be a harder level of regression so she wants me to try to control the use of the pacifier a little more because I am on vacation and she knows I would be the whole day and she thinks that is no good, I think she is scared that I won’t be able to function on day to day if I regress to much I think because of my autism she is a little worried but she didn’t ask me to stop just to balance. Did you understand sometimes my writing is not clear so if you have questions feel free
about the accidents I kind of wanted but I am a little scared that won’t stop and to travel will be hard

 

[SoS7883]

Well she doesn’t know abou the diaper I told only about the pacifier a few months ago, because I use to cut myself so she said it was better a pacifier than cutting, but when I told her about the accidents she said it may be a harder level of regression so she wants me to try to control the use of the pacifier a little more because I am on vacation and she knows I would be the whole day and she thinks that is no good, I think she is scared that I won’t be able to function on day to day if I regress to much I think because of my autism she is a little worried but she didn’t ask me to stop just to balance. Did you understand sometimes my writing is not clear so if you have questions feel free
about the accidents I kind of wanted but I am a little scared that won’t stop and to travel will be hard

I understand you, did you have a dream u were wetting or were u in some deep sleep ? Bc lately I've been having dreams I'm peeing and I havent had any accidents but I'm nervous I'm going to in my dream I was wearing a dip and in real life I wasnt

 

[Peepeegirl]

I was on deep sleep, but I did have the pee dream many times but then woke almost peeing but dry, but now I have been dry for 3 nights

 

[sport1]

I was on deep sleep, but I did have the pee dream many times but then woke almost peeing but dry, but now I have been dry for 3 nights

Congrad"s.

 

[Chasecar]

.
"Nocturia" can be several different issues ( or a combination of issues ) . Often times not even a good urologist can figure it out .
I ended up with the generic diagnosis "kidneys overproduce urine at night" which is basically a non-answer. I do not have the money to see a specialist for further testing or treatment .

Word of advice: going to bed dehydrated is *NOT* a good idea, as it can lead to many other medical issues down the road.

I'll give you a strong second there! Dehydration is not a treatment or solution for any inco issues! It's an invitation to worse problems.

 

[Alexande]

Last nite I was dreaming of finding a restroom and using it and waking up soaking myself.
no leeks with my Abena.

 

[OmiOMy]

I'll give you a strong second there! Dehydration is not a treatment or solution for any inco issues! It's an invitation to worse problems.

Yup. Does the exact opposite of what you expect. So many wet beds...

 

[furry121]

Thanks.

Next week I'm having a phone call with my doctors office nurse practitioner. I am going against the ABDL rules but I have thought about this for nearly two years.

My wife HATES HATES HATES diapers and my marriage is in deep trouble. She thinks I have night time dribbling issues because I used to wear diapers for fun in my 20s, she doesn't know I still wear diapers today. My diaper desire is strong and I cannot shake it.

I do not have night time dribbling issues, I've wet the bed a few times because my diaper leaked (I sneak into bed padded sometimes, Ill wake at night and use my diaper).

So, I have decided to say to my Dr "My wife has encouraged me to talk with you about my dribbling at night, I don't think this call is necessary because I've had dribble issues for decades, it's not becoming worse, but my wife hates it, i do not want to take medication and I am managing my dribbling just fine"

I know this is frowned upon but it's this or I come clean to my wife about my ABDL, she will divorce if I come clean.

I'm hoping to come out of this and say I spoke with Dr, its unusual at my age but no concern, contact Dr if it gets worse, not worth coming in for tests with COVID so bad....

I'll feel more confident when I say I will wear Goodnites to bed for the dribble. She already knows I own Super Undies.

Question not for me but for u..

Can u live without her?

 

[BWAron]

A question for anyone who has become a bed wetter latter in life how did that happen?

I used to wet the bed as a kid until I was about 12, but then started about a year ago again. Found out it was from an enlarged prostrate, a combo of meds that knocks my ass out at night and high stress and anexity.

 

[surprise35]

I used to wet the bed as a kid until I was about 12, but then started about a year ago again. Found out it was from an enlarged prostrate, a combo of meds that knocks my ass out at night and high stress and anexity.

Hey, I have the same exact issue with an enlarged prostate, the meds I take before bed have caused my bedwetting to come back. But especially so if I'm stressed or anxious too.

 

[sport1]

I also take med's for prostate problems which causes me to wet.

 

[WBxx]

I used to wet the bed as a kid until I was about 12, but then started about a year ago again. Found out it was from an enlarged prostrate, a combo of meds that knocks my ass out at night and high stress and anexity.

Hey, I have the same exact issue with an enlarged prostate, the meds I take before bed have caused my bedwetting to come back. But especially so if I'm stressed or anxious too.

I also take med's for prostate problems which causes me to wet.

Any of you taking Flomax?

 

[sport1]

Yes.

 

[Wookiebaby]

I was born premature, because of this my kidneys are very small. I required 3 transplants throughout my life and still pee my bed. I wear diapers during the night and sometimes during the day. When I was younger at used to bother me. I couldn't sleep over at friends houses. Now it doesn't bother me as much as an adult.

 

[CherryMiku]

I developed bladder-control issues as the result of a surgical mishap when I was 14 years old. I’m 78 now; and I‘ve been a frequent bedwetter ever since that incident. In addition, I’ve needed to wear a diaper 24/7 for the past 30 years or so.

What surgical mishap was this if I may ask? As in, what was the surgery?

 

[surprise35]

Any of you taking Flomax?

Yes I am, have been since August 2019