Bad diaper day :(

[Bryce]

So, my abenas are to arrive today and turns out my brother stayed home from school. Ok, no big deal I can get by him. Now, it's 3pm and diapers still haven't come and what would you know my mom and other brother get home early from school/work. So now I need to get past them while mom is home and I don't know what to do

 

[Pojo]

You're 20. It's none of their business what you get in the mail.

 

[Bryce]

I know it isn't but my mom is a real picky person when it comes to spending money. She thinks everything is a waste except the bare needed things lol. Yet we still have cable, phone, internet, etc lol

 

[ArcticFluffy]

Then tell her not to open your mail.

 

[Dakota13]

just, calm down and make a game plan.

 

[BabyWolf]

Intercept the delivery before the doorbell rings? Hide them outside until you can sneak them in?

 

[Bryce]

They were left on the porch while I was in the shower -_- Brothers outside playing with their friends so they probably assumed it was computer parts or something and just left it. Mom was on the phone laying down so yay XD.

 

[Gil]

I know it isn't but my mom is a real picky person when it comes to spending money. She thinks everything is a waste except the bare needed things lol. Yet we still have cable, phone, internet, etc lol

Move out?

 

[ArcticFluffy]

Move out?

Agreed.

 

[CarKid]

You're 20. It's none of their business what you get in the mail.

Um if he lives at home, its all of their business if they want it to be....

 

[Wegs]

Um if he lives at home, its all of their business if they want it to be....

Unfortunately, true.

 

[Bryce]

I will move out as soon as I can. I suck at money management though Damn, these games keep sucking me dry

It's also hard when you've got almost zero motivation to interact with people. Right now, it's just my mom and family and even that is REALLY hard to get me to even say 'hi' to them let alone a complete stranger or something.

 

[Darkfinn]

Damn, these games keep sucking me dry

That's your major problem. Please don't turn into one of those guys who lives in mom's basement... you'll never get a girl.

 

[Calico]

Move out?

If he has the money and can afford to live on his own.

It's also hard when you've got almost zero motivation to interact with people. Right now, it's just my mom and family and even that is REALLY hard to get me to even say 'hi' to them let alone a complete stranger or something.

Bah you can live on your own without interacting with people. I lived on my own in Montana for a year and a half and I didn't have any friends. I did get one bf but he was a lazy punk. Now I have my third bf and I still don't have many friends. I just go to my local gatherings here. One of them is AB/DL/Furry. The other one is just a support group.

 

[LittleAdam]

I will move out as soon as I can. I suck at money management though Damn, these games keep sucking me dry

It's also hard when you've got almost zero motivation to interact with people. Right now, it's just my mom and family and even that is REALLY hard to get me to even say 'hi' to them let alone a complete stranger or something.

Not to be harsh, but maybe you should stop spending money on premium diapers for a while and start saving to get a place of your own? :educate:

 

[ArcticFluffy]

Um if he lives at home, its all of their business if they want it to be....

legaly no it is not.

 

[analogmedium]

That's your major problem. Please don't turn into one of those guys who lives in mom's basement... you'll never get a girl.

Unless the girl lives in a basement too

 

[Triscuit]

legaly no it is not.

you're absolutely correct; here's the thing:

they can harass him, bug him, ask him repeatedly, pound on his door, etc.
that's the psychological advantage parents can keep over a son/daughter even if they are over 18. i doubt that anyone in that situation would call the cops or attempt to press charges when they're trying to smuggle a box of Abenas in the house.

it's unfortunate, but legal or not -- you're under your parents' roof.