I think its a shame it ever had to be written up in the first place as everything within it is common sense. But then retards get everywhere and furries love to hate their own drama.
1. Some conventions specify that you must be 18 for admittance. Especially for access to the adult content section. Further Confusion has a parental waiver if you are underage, I believe.
2.) No. But a fur named Lil Pup hosts private meets fairly often.
3.) Anthrocon and Further Confusion. I might be at the Cubhouse. Not sure yet. But I am meeting a close friend, that is a babyfur, at the convention. Another friend is coming from Canada. I'm excited to say the least!
4.) No, again. Only 15% actually wear fursuits. Almost 90% wear either a badge, tail, or other furry insignia though. I do recommend at least a badge. Check FA for potential commissions. I will be wearing either a partial fursuit, or just a tail. Greatly depends on my finances.
Fur cons are tons of fun, babyfurs or not. You're going to love it. Trust me!