wished for and wanted baby time, since I was a child, the phrase "if you act like a baby, you can or would be treated like one," has haunted me all my life. tried with limited success with xwife, and a couple relationships. but it wasn't until recently with early retirement that I was willing to give into my desires and be willing to try and find a companion/mommy, to establish a loving bond and create a relationship as she would like.
for in the grand scheme of this lifestyle, after the initial communication is over and you are sure you have the right Mommy.
there is little room for compromise.
so now rather than trying to find a relationship and hope for the best, I'm putting mommy first and just let the bond created between us blossom into love and romance, as Mommy knows best!! Haha