Aww So Cute and The Rubber Nipple Website

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I posted a while back about how Aww So Cute making the whole AB thing more sexual. This new Rubber Nipple website which they host, is definitely sexually based. Isn't there enough sites out there that are sexual based depicting women as wanna be AB's. Personally I find it a slap in the face to adult babies that are for real and not just some kind of sexual kink. There's enough perverted AB sites out there. I wish there were more wholesome non sexual adult baby content and sites on the Net.
 

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A lot of diapered people see ADSIC as a weird place full of self loathing people that pretend sex does not exist. AB play is sexual for a lot of adult babies. You are complaining that most people are practicing their kink wrong and should stop it to cater to your ideals.
 

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I just want to once see some non sexual AB stuff instead of sexual things all the time
 

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A lot of diapered people see ADSIC as a weird place full of self loathing people that pretend sex does not exist. AB play is sexual for a lot of adult babies. You are complaining that most people are practicing their kink wrong and should stop it to cater to your ideals.

Sex does exist, but if you think about it the culture is overstated with it, even in the Abdl community as MasterPython points out, and of course it's sexuall, for a lot of people, but come on there's more to life then sex, people, I don't pretend sex dosn't exist, I like the occasional inappropriate joke, and my humor, can get sophomoric, but come on. This is why I like adisc so MUCH, because of that, and also it's a special place, where we can talk about more than diapers, we can talk about our life's as well, and it's easier to swallow and accept it. 😹😹😹😹😹😹😹
 

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What exactly is wrong with them starting a side business under a different site name for selling porn? Why are they obligated to nonsexual ABDLs not to do that?

They're even sticking it under a new and different website so that you don't have to look at it or participate in any way if you don't want to.
 

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Their site, their money, their choice of what to promote. A sexual interest is equally valid. The only slight you perceive is one you create for yourself.
 

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Their site, their money...........yes. But how come whenever I post anything about just like stuff to be non sexual, everyone jumps my ass.
 

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Their site, their money...........yes. But how come whenever I post anything about just like stuff to be non sexual, everyone jumps my ass.

I think it's because you push a line of exclusivity for it. I don't see much point in ABDL stuff without a sexual interest but I don't complain about people who don't like that or say they shouldn't talk about their experiences. Go make a site that's about your nonsexual AB interests and I'll be first in line to be indifferent to it unless someone complains about it, at which point I'll be right there with you advocating for your right to exist.
 

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I don't push Trevor. I see AB interest being able to exist without sexual things involved. Sexual AB stuff is its own thing. Expressing that I like AB stuff that's non sexual isn't a crime Trevor. And I don't push anything.
 

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You made a thread saying that you are hurt because the site even exists. That is about as pushy as you can get without calling for a DoS attack.
 

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Umm, I didn't say I was hurt. Read carefully next time MasterPython. I said it was a slap in the face. I'm not hurt by it. Just get tired of seeing AB interests depicted sexually. Kind of the way some Furries get tired of being depicted sexually.

If you type in "adult baby" in any given search engine, watch how many sexual things show up. I know the sexual aspect of ABDL will always exist. I'm just speaking from my personal preference that I get tired of seeing sexual stuff all the time. I think I have that right to voice my feelings about that. I just think I fet tired of seeing fake models depicted in the ABDL that just seem to make a mockery of it all. But as I said before, that's just my opinion.
 

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Please define what a "real AB" is. The explain how depicting something in a sexual manner is a slap in the face to them.
 

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Bunny...maybe your point of view is how you think of things but our point of view is totally different on how we think of things, your opinions won't change ours.

There are many kind of AB's out there. Here's one I received.

Adult Baby(Source from UrbanDictionary) said:
When one dresses and acts like a baby, Having to be cared for in every way by a mommy, daddy, or both.

Adult Baby(Source from Babyfur) said:
A person that enjoys regressing back to being a baby. Beyond regressing using physical or environmental changes (such as diapers, clothing, and settings), they also mentally regress, taking the mentality of a baby. These are the equivalent to 'babyfurs' or 'lilfurs' when crossed with furry. Teenagers who are Adult Babies will sometimes refer to themselves as Teen Babies (TBs).

There are multiple definitions but sexual things sometimes make up of Adult Babies. Sorry that we disgust you bunny but it's who we are.

I also typed in "Adult Baby" in the Google search engine and here were the links on the first page I got,

http://littleab.com/
http://www.tlc.com/tv-shows/my-crazy-obsession/videos/a-real-life-adult-baby/
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Paraphilic_infantilism
http://dependeco-adult-diapers.com/catalog.php?category=1&page=all
http://www.dailydiapers.com/
http://www.adultbaby.co.uk/
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9LY5Z6tyrY8
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9LY5Z6tyrY8
http://www.abdlmatch.com/
http://toddlerism.com/adult-baby-links/

(The sexual link is not up here)

I only found 1 link (It showed naked women in diapers) but out of the first page, I didn't see any sexual except that one link, you made it seem that everything about adult babies is sexual which is not, sometimes it can be peaceful or actually helpful for most of us. Not everything about diapers is sex to us dude.
 
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Umm, I didn't say I was hurt. Read carefully next time MasterPython. I said it was a slap in the face. I'm not hurt by it. Just get tired of seeing AB interests depicted sexually. Kind of the way some Furries get tired of being depicted sexually.

If you type in "adult baby" in any given search engine, watch how many sexual things show up. I know the sexual aspect of ABDL will always exist. I'm just speaking from my personal preference that I get tired of seeing sexual stuff all the time. I think I have that right to voice my feelings about that. I just think I fet tired of seeing fake models depicted in the ABDL that just seem to make a mockery of it all. But as I said before, that's just my opinion.

I think there's one major issue with what you said that is getting people jumping on you. It's when you said this (bolding added by me)
I find it a slap in the face to adult babies that are for real and not just some kind of sexual kink

What that sentence strongly implies is that you do not believe that ABs who enjoy it as a sexual kink are "real" ABs. I think a lot of people (myself included, to be honest) find a statement like that to be an attack on our identities. I feel like just as much of an AB as anyone else as I sit here writing this post in my diaper and footie jammies whether that happens to arouse me or not. And, imo, it's not a good idea to try and tell people they're wrong about their own self-identity as a general matter.

Now, I realize you probably didn't mean to tell anyone that they don't belong in the AB community, but your word choice accidentally implied that, and imo, that's the reason why so many people are jumping on you.
 

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It's never been hidden that AwwSoCute is catering to the sexual side of AB/DLs, just look at the main website filled with mostly naked chicks, blatantly sexual poses, and two way dialogue. AwwSoCute is also popular within the "Modeling" community, and not tasteful modeling like in a PlayBoy mag, vulgar and crass like in Hustler. We all know that sex exists within the community, and the smart ones distance themselves from it if they don't like it, it's not like we deny its existence. I'm not saying that other AB/DL Diaper Companies don't get used in modeling, for instance, the D.C. Amor is also rising in popularity within the modeling scene, but it is usually done tastefully and dosen't show anything that you wouldn't see on HBO (Yes, that is an extremely dated way of saying it, but I'm sure most of us remember when it was like that :)). Personally, for me it is nonsexual, but it has been arousing in the past as a Teen, but let's face it, everyone was like that at some point in their life. I personally think AwwSoCute only has a few more years left in them, that inflatable "Crib Thingy" is, quite honestly, an overhyped piece of crap that they poured WAY TOO MUCH money into, if that dosen't kill them, then this whole rubber nipple thing will once more people get wind of it and aren't too happy about it.
 

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I don't see much point in ABDL stuff without a sexual interest but I don't complain about people who don't like that or say they shouldn't talk about their experiences. Go make a site that's about your nonsexual AB interests and I'll be first in line to be indifferent to it unless someone complains about it, at which point I'll be right there with you advocating for your right to exist.
Trust me, Crinkles, I get it, honey. What I think I'm hearing is, :soapbox: :frown::mad: "I get sick & tired of people outside our little bubble (& some inside it) not understanding how it feels, for this not to be kink!" Am I right? If so, I know the feeling! I, as a plain-bellied sneetch (non-sexual) wish I could somehow help people know how it feels to have it be an inextricable part of oneself. I mean, even on ADISC, sexuals know we exist, but do they understand how it feels for a non-sexual to see sexualized pictures, when all he or she is looking for are comfort items, or know that most outsiders think we're all the same, or be in a non-sexual AB headspace? No, they don't. Why? Because feelings can be hard to articulate. Perpetuating the idea that we're all the same is endlessly frustrating! There's the slap in the face. A few non-sexuals are slowly changing public perception. The documentary The 15 Stone Babies, on youtube, depicts us plain-bellies well.

Try to see it the other way. We can't expect them to attempt for us what we won't attempt for them. Say you're Trevor, a star-bellied sneetch (sexual). Would you like to be seen as not, for real? I can see where the star-bellies feel like an endangered species on ADISC, but I felt like an odd duck when I first got here, for being non-sexual!:giggles: We shouldn't get all puffed up and prideful for being non-sexual, and they shouldn't get that way for being sexual.

I know that there are more than 2 camps here, and even the 2 I've named aren't clearly cut & dry. Even DLs can wear exclusively for comfort.

Trevor said:
I'll be first in line to be indifferent to it unless someone complains about it, at which point I'll be right there with you advocating for your right to exist.
Thanks. Me too.
 
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To be honest, so many things are sold today using sex to sell them. There should be nothing sexual about a car, but apparently there is sex appeal to automobiles. It's the day and age in which we live. I did think it funny that you asked why everyone was jumping on your butt, and then I had this sexual image of someone doing exactly that. We live in a world of sexual connotations. The media is primarily to blame for this. Like it or not, sex sells. Personally, I find it ridiculous. When I was in college at a music conservatory, when sex was mentioned, it often got acted upon or discussed in such an extreme way, as most of the males were gay, including myself. I find the media pathetic and afraid to really show themselves.

So then there's diapers and their sales. Look at the Depends add on TV with all those good looking men running down the street, naked, except for their Depends diapers. I'm not sure anyone knows what they're trying to say?
 

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To be honest, so many things are sold today using sex to sell them. There should be nothing sexual about a car, but apparently there is sex appeal to automobiles. It's the day and age in which we live.

Case in point:

[video=youtube;CzP2yzrKl28]https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CzP2yzrKl28[/video]
 

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Oh yeah. That's a good example. I wonder where my Honda Pilot fits unto the masculine scale? Perhaps I should go dress shopping.....sigh.
 

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Okay, I'm an adult baby because of severe neglect and childhood trauma. I guess seeing someone sexualize something that seems to be innocent to me, just feels wrong.

And just because people use sex to sell stuff, doesn't necessarily make it right Dogboy. I try to avoid that garbage. Sometimes sex is so overrated and blown out of proportion.
 
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